Man, I just don't get why shit can't be simple. I'm a genuine person just looking for someone to spend time with and also have crazy hot sex with. Hahaha. But I'm bankrupt in the love department. I think I'm terrible at flirting, cause I don't really like to put myself out there. If only someone could see that under this nice girl image I'm pretty damn horny! Just had to get that off my back...
play a game with a guy of your choice and see how many one liners it takes for him to take you away lol. I remember a girl was VERY straight forward with me one night. I knew beforehand that we were attracted to eachother and that she was into me. Then one night, out of nowhere she came behind me, grabbed my you know what and whispered "i wanna fuck" in my ear. I was hard in like 2 seconds and i immediately was turned on and wanted her badly. I suggest you do the same with a good person who deserves sex.....like yourself! Just dont give it up to some asswhole who doesnt appreciate a good night.....
lol... i just don't get it though! How can it be hard for girls to succesfully flirt & get results? It's so much easier 4 women it ain't even fair!
yeah, i think there's a lot of truth in this statement. there's such a ridiculous standard out there that the male humans have to initiate the interaction with the females, and it's bullshit. there is no good reason whatsoever why it should be this way - besides tradition, but that's not a good reason at all - all it does is leave that many more people alone and miserable, when otherwise they wouldn't be. all the girlfriends i ever had i acquired because they took the initiative and came to me. granted, that was mostly in high school, and i haven't had a girlfriend in six years now, so i'm almost certain that it is not a fruitful tactic at all. in fact, i'm in need of making serious revisions to my existence as a single man in america.
I played them with everyone in the past except my fiancee. The next time we saw each other, after our first date I told him I was falling in love with him and have loved him since the first time we met and that if he wasn't falling in love with me he needed to leave me alone. It's 4 months later and we're engaged. I call him when I want to call him, sometimes multiple times a day. I am needy and whiney and myself and am soooo glad I was up front and didn't play games. Before him I never called anyone I dated unless it was calling them back after them calling me numerous times. I never said I love you first...so just be real if you want to find real love. If a guy wants to continue and play games walk away...because there are sooooo many good ones out there.
