insatiable...and totally rejected?

I was in a serious relationship that ended about a year ago. Friends into lovers as the old Frank Sinatra song goes (pretty sure it was sinatra) ANYWAY, now Im talking to several guys....I dont know if this is considerered normal or not...but, I really am trying to find what I like in someone. Im 26, so Im getting up there I think.
The thing that irks me tho...I play softball with this guy who is definitely cute, and I would like to get to know him better...So, of course I upped the ante and aggressively pursued him...I had his email so I emailed him and said you still on for the movies sat...if not no biggie. But, turns out I feel like a schmuck considering he hasnt even responded and I will see him every softball game feeling like a complete reject.

What do you think I should do?Obviously it is what it is...but, Im a cute girl and I seriously dont ever get rejected.

 

When you say that you persued him like crazy, what exactly do you mean? One email isn't like crazy... but anyway, I honestly think that most guys like to do some of the cahsing some of the time. So back off a bit and see what happens.

And it's normal to talk to and go out with lots of guys. Have fun!! That's what I try to do (operative word being "try"...

 

Well, we have played ball for awhile now...so, I figured after the game I'd flirt a bit and then just cut to the chase...I was like you know youre really cute I think we should hang out. Pretty much being honest. His brother says he is shy...but, he did seem intrigued...Then after I left he was like cya saturday? I was like yup! But, the little dweeb stood my butt up. Im not going to pursue it anymore. However. I am going to give him shit for not being respectful...in a joking way of course...not a psycho hose beast way. What do you think? I mean Im not like in dire need of a BF Im talking to a few guys...there is just something about him...Id probably get bored with him anyhow since he is apparently so "shy"....who knows. I just wanna make out once !!! haha

 

Sounds like you've kept it nonchalant. I don't think you've come on strong. Maybe he is just shy and needs a chance to open up some more. If you think he's worth the wait, maybe some subtlety and coaxing can go a long way.

 

if your going to get tired of him anyways then what are you playing games with him for? If you are looking for what it is you need in a person, playing games is not the way to do it. I think you sound like a cool girl, i like the way you approach your confrontations (in a silly way, give him shit for not showing up without being loud and screaming and dramatic....i think that will get the point across much better). I know i am extremely shy in most cases, but if a girl came onto me after a ball game and told me i was cute and wanted to hang out, i would definitely follow up on that because i would love a gf. But it sounds like he isnt that into you. If he didnt show, there is a reason. Maybe not, i mean i could be wrong and he may have feelings for you but it sounds like he isnt very interested. Cant win em all.....

 

Thats true...I guess he just isnt that interested...like the book! I think that book is crap by the way.
I dont really want to play games with him...Im just saying I think I would be bored to make myself feel better about being rejected.hahaha.
When we talked he made it seem like he was still into his ex gf...he visited her in NY last week for her BDAY and bought her tix to a concert...But, yet he said he wanted to see the movie with me....hmmm
haha I dont know I think he is probably still into his ex for some reason and sort of keeping his feelings about her low key.

 

Did you think he might not have gotten your e-mail? Ask him. If he said he did not, tell him what was in it. If he said he did, ask him why no response.

 

ask him if his email is working and if he got your email he will be forced to give you a lame excuse and you can see his sincerity level.or maybe he has someone or maybe you just don't do it for him even though you are a cute girl and have never been rejected......