I am at work and bored enough to pose this question because, first, the internet makes things amusing, and second, I wonder if there are other people in situations like mine. Anyway, what is the situation with you and your lover or lovers? Right now, I live with my girlfriend. Our relationship has pretty much failed, but our lease isn't up until May, so we do our best to get along. We still sleep in the same bed and have sex sometimes, but we've decided that our relationship is "open." I think that we've been getting along better since acknowledging our disinterest for each other, so I am pretty ambivalent about things. I don't know if I am going to start seeing other girls or not because I'd rather enjoy the semi-solitude for awhile; she has been going out with other guys, but they have yet to woo her.
Why don't you just go out with a few girls and see if you have a good time? You don't even have to "woo" them, just show your girlfriend your not just stuck there. Who knows, might even make her abit jealous lol.
to OP: sounds like a good basis for an indie romance flick :tongue: mine is quite the hollywood sort (which I would totally resent if I didn't love it so much :tongue: ) looking for a completely different sort of girl completely overlooked her when I saw her (or I guess, more appropriately, when she saw me) she STALKED me down (though she denies that part) on a coworker's myspace I, quite superficially overlooked her once again (her myspace pictures were bad) but continued a friendship with her eventually we were talking everyday on the phone after school and then one day we met, and she was absolutely adorable, and I fell for her New Year's was our first kiss 6 months later we are both happier than ever before, haven't come anywhere close to a fight, and are living happily ever after :tongue:
@ Budman: I don't really feel like seeing other girls, but if I met one that I really liked, then I wouldn't hesitate. There's not anything that I am trying to prove to her; it was my idea for her to see other guys because I was tired of her complaining about how I don't want to have sex often enough. @ Duck: I think it's more like Jerry Springer.
Wow. A guy that wants to have sex less than his GF, that's something I haven't heard before lol. Is she bad in bed or just a sex addict? Right now I do not have a BF or GF. I am in love with my best friend but she is dating a jerk off, plus I am pretty certain she does not and will not share my feelings and I do not want to ruin our friendship by telling her, at least not at this time. I am pretty sure I will tell her eventually, but until then I will continue to have not as meaningful relationships. But those are the cruel jokes life plays on the heart.
Haha, that's pretty much the story of my life. I started out as really good friends with my current girlfriend and always thought she wasn't interested in me. We decided to be roommates one summer, ended up having sex one night, and have lived together since then (about 15 months). Also, she likes sex way more than I do. I guess my hormones aren't raging enough.
I'm not addicted ot sex or anything (in fact I would say I don't have as much of a sexual drive as most guys), but if I had a GF who wanted sex that much I would be more than happy to oblige.
That's what I thought, too. We had sex all the time for about a month and then it got old. Maybe it is just that it was with the same person all the time, but I don't really know.
It's your choice man, but you should try new things, different posistions and such. Mix it up and it won't get boring, even with the same person.
Well, my ex-girlfriend who is now married might be having my baby. But, there's 2 girls I hang with alot and they want to date me. I just don't know wdf is going on
