ok so

i just got back from my boyfriend's grandparent's place.
we usually go down by the river to...

but i just got meds for my uti and have my period so tonight was going to have to be me giving oral.
everything was great. until he shot and i spit it out...
which i never do. and he noticed and asked why i didn;t just swallow as usual...
and it just seemed like me not swallowing was offensive or something.

then he didn't kiss me goodnight. well...he did on my cheek but not the same...


so is a girl swallowing/not swallowing a big deal?

 

if he gets angry about something so minuscule as swallowing semen he's not worth your time.

especially if you swallow every other time.

 

Just because of not swallowing and he gets angry, just leave him, his not worth it, his there for u just because of u providing a service for him and not out of love. There's nothing wrong with spitting out or what ever u did with his cum. Instead he should show more concern about you.

 

he didn't get angry.
he just was confused? and questioned me

 

You know, it shouldn't be! Some guys seem to feel like you are rejecting them by spitting, so some do make a big deal out of it! Give him a nice big kiss with a cum filled mouth and see how he feels about it, If it is good enough for you to swallow then it should be plenty fine for him to share it with you.
Try this, next time let him cum in your mouth, keep working him, and as you do let it drool out. He will probably never notice you didn't swallow.

 

Not a big deal at all. Men that act like that give us a bad name. Don't give him head next time and that might put things in perspective.

peace&love
ryv

 

he mayve thought that your gag reflex was super high or your stomach was upset and didnt want to aggravate it by jamming his tongue into your mouth...

 

hahah at times when i was upset with his actions i told myself to punish him by not giving, but i gave in to temptation! i can't help it :&

 

Did you guys actually talk about it? There was probably something else on his mind / going on.

 

i agree...just talk to him...it was just a weird reflex thing...if you explain to him what it was theres no reason for him to get confused.

 

Down by the river...duh duh duh duh duh duh duh...

 

dont need me sayin this since every1 else is but, just talk to him. prob made him a bit paranoid since u did something out of character.