ready or not here i come...

ok guys,,,i need some help. I am leaving my husband. we have been together 17 years and not had sex for the last 5 or 6.

I have never dated...always met another man and left my partner.

This time I plan to do things right. I am not leaving for another man and I am going to do my best to find the right man for me.

The problem? I don't find myself attracted to very many men and when I do, I go bananas. I think i obsess and find I can't live without them. I then immediately profess my attraction and I believe this scares them.

I am VERY passionate and intense. I'm older, but not too old and most men seem attracted to me.

How do I "pace" myself and find the right one? How do I tell who the players are? How do I find a fantastic sexual partner and not get a disease?

Would you be scared off if a pretty woman came on too strong? Do I fight my nature and "pretend" not to be too interested. (that doesn't sound like fun)...I love the initial initensity...

As you can tell I am pretty confused.....but an honest man's opinion would be nice...

go ahead be brutal....

silly girl

 

Post this in reatiionships.

Not here as it is the wrong forum.

I wish you well but this is the wrong forum for this.

Love and light and healing.