I just can't decide what to do... I'm about 90% sure that I'm pregnant, but that's based mainly on my own intuition-- I'd be 100% by now, but I can't go anywhere to get a test untill friday. If I am, I don't know how my boyfriend will react. I'm already so attatched to this baby (be it really there or not), because I love my bf so much... abortion is in no way an option, and couldn't go through with adoption... I just can't make up my mind: should I tell my boyfriend about what I'm going through right now, or wait untill I really know? I don't have any girlfriends I can talk to about it, and all my buds are out of town, so I'm just a pile of nerves. I think he's starting to suspect that something's up because I've been a little standoffish with him, mainly because I'm afraid that I might loose him over this. I don't really think he'd leave me, but it's just a natural fear, I guess... should I go ahead and tell him? ugh, I don't want to make his life more difficult, I really don't, but if I am pregnant, I want to keep the baby
Definitely do NOT tell him unless you are 100% sure you are pregnant. I've had girlfriends do the "I missed my period" thing before, and it absolutely sucks - not to mention completely unecessary! Just wait till you know. Please, for the sake of your boyfriend's sanity!
Thanks for the help-- I didn't really feel right about saying anything unless I was sure (don't want to be one of those girls who pop that out all the time just to cause drama, but haven't been in the situation before...) Anyway, got a test today and it was positive... so I guess now there's not too much question about telling him...
Yeah, when you need to check for pregnancy, just go to rite aid, or whatever drug store you have around and buy an EPT stick. It's not free, but you can get it immediately. Anyway, good luck for you and your baby... take good care of him/her.
