why do i have such a horrible taste in guys? my last bf was a druggie with no home, no job, no car, not attractive, smelt bad, treated me like shit, cheated on me. and i still love him. this is kalyns friend by the way
You're 15...you're just inexperienced and naive... It happens...look at it this way, it can't get much worse!
im sorry to hear of your troubles. I agree, you are still very young with much of your experiences ahead of you. Maybe you deserve better? Are you still together with this man or are you guys apart now? If apart, maybe it is for the best. You are a very very beautiful woman and im sure you have no problem picking up boys. Any guy would be lucky to have you, and sometimes the nice guys get overlooked for guys that are more physically attractive, etc. Or something. All i can say is that i think no matter who you are, you should try and learn from your past relationships and how they can change you for the better. So next time you find a nice guy, he will think you are the bomb shit (which you are baby!) Hope this helps. If you need anything else just shoot me a pm Id be glad to help you out anytime. I mean we are neighbors! (Im in Lawrence, Overland Park area) Have a good one Kam...
Is he at least smart? I mean, come on, I have heard of naive before, but damn, this is another level! At least most girls who go for a bone head will at least go for a bonehead who has at least one redeemable quality. This type of reasoning you apply doesn't mesh with any area of life. You wouldn't buy a pepper thats all mushy and black would you? Not to be mean, but maybe some soul searching is in order? Deep psychological analyses? Who you are attracted to speaks volumes about yourself and how you feel and value yourself, especially if it becomes a pattern. This is not a pattern you want to fall into, but is easy to get into if you start to get use to certain guys and certian negative treatments, and that starts to become the norm. You realize he is bad for you, so get him out of your life. No more excuses. Break the cycle before it becomes engrained in you and becomes all you know, otherwise whats bad may become comfortable. Sadly, thats why a wife will sometimes stay with her abusive (be is mental, emotional or physical) husband because she doesn't know a relationship under any other terms. (a trillion edits, I am done)
I have friends who alwaus sucseed to find the wose guys, and i've noticed that that's because they look for guys in the wrong places, and that they feel most confortable with hitting on that kind of guys because they're loosers anyway so it's not a big loss to them if they get rejected. (i'm not saying that this refers to you too) So it's not about your "bad taste" it's about your aditude towards guys.
ive found that most people who repeatedly end up with people who are -horrible- for them dont really like themselves much to begin with, and sabotage any relationship by ensuring that its with a craptacular person
