I hate him in real life. and i date him in dreams!!!

Theres this guy at my school, omg hes so annoying. Hes just so immature. I can't stand him. The weird thing is, I have these dreams that I like him. like we'll be going out and stuff. Does that mean like deep down...and I mean REALLY deep down, I like him or is my mind just being weird?

 

Heaven2007,

walking in the contradictions of life, sometimes we tap into the heavens and hells of our own making right away ... where all the others around just help, by reflecting our own reactions, and also the need to move beyond.

So maybe the dreams just help you to move beyond feelings of being annoyed and confused, and let go ... as you are attracted in kinda vice versa way ... which is still an attraction. The meaning is in what you make of it. It does not necessarly mean you want to go out with him ... but be friends with your own self in times of growing and changing ... and just see him the same way.

 

I recently learned that through various dream studies they've learned that when you have dreams where you're having sex with or are being intimate with someone you never would or ever thought of in real life that it actually means that they have a thing for you and that by their thinking about it they are projecting that energy your way. So it could be that this boy is crushing on you and you're subconscience is picking it up. You know... the whole "everything is connected" theory and the law of attraction. If you liked him you'd know it. And if you can be honest with yourself about it you can admit to yourself whether or not you are attracted to or repulsed by him. You don't have to admit it to anyone else... Either way if you look deep within you will know. Just remember whatever you think upon a lot, whether it be something you want or don't want, it will surface around you somewhere because you are attracting it to you by simply thinking about it. The law of attraction has no bias towards positive or negative attraction. It only knows where the attention is and goes there.

 

Thank you. That helps.

 

why should it? it's bullshit...


maybe your subconcious recognises the fact that humans need to be brotherly toward each other...

 

Both. You like him and you're being weired out. You have to understand that by him annoying you you are being paid attention to. So you like that part of it - someone is so attracted to you that they would waste their time on you. But the other person is trying to figure out what life is all about to, so he plays games with people. He is insecure. And he finds you secure and confident. So he seeks you out.

That's just life. You'll handle it the way you finally decide to. Until then just ignore your dreams and deal with the person in real life. You needn't hurt him. Just suggest that he go out more for sports, for example.

At the very least you have proven the "opposite meaning" of dreams. Now the question becomes, "is everytning in a dream mean the opposite?"

 

it is normal if you dreamed that person because you're definitely thinking him before you sleep..maybe you have some feelings towards the guy but the problem is you don't admit it or you're not ready yet...

 

No.

 

maybe you need to take another look at this guy. he may be nicer than you think. of course he may not be too, and you are just having a weird dream

 

Something like a date is a symbol of deep knowledge of someone : even if you'd never consider it in real life, it's the best way your mind can represent what's going on at a deeper level. The dream is a sign of your subconscious mind trying to get a better definition of what he is, so maybe the reason you're dreaming about him is that deep down you feel a little bad for 'hating' him without knowing him better..?

 

It depends on if you somehow think he's sexy, and if you somehow feel attracted to him - by your body rather than with your mind.

If you feel deep inside yourself, and if you consider him very ugly - well, maybe you didn't feel deep enough. Maybe you're attracted by the ugliness that he represent, but it's all such a taboo according to anything you learnt and anything you thought you was to like anything dirty, so you're oppressing your passion for the forbidden ugly while you can. Only in your dreams, you can't control your forbidden passion over dirt.

But if he's just another naughty good looking popular rebel guy, it's no mysterious at all. Then you simply just like strong guys who can beat the rest up, despite your moral sense is telling you to be a loving flowergirl who love any creature.

Ok... maybe it's more complicated... that was just two theories...

 

Maybe it's him coming to you in dream form by astral projection.