i'm not sure. i don't think i want to, but i don't want to be a hypocrite. and if yes, will you let them discover it on their own of like offer it to them when they're in their [pre]teens? i want to see other peoples opinions
i would love my kids and want them to be healthy and happy and would shelter them as much as i could at a young age from such things. once a person reaches adolescence however, things change. i'd always wanted to smoke weed. but i think it was because i'd smelt me aunty smoking it all the time when i was a little girl! strangely, i'd always wanted to try it.. some people just have the curiosity i guess... but no. i wouldn't be happy if my kids did it.
I wouldn't announce I smoked (but if they asked I would tell them) and I wouldn't go around saying "smoke up kids" but if they wanted to blaze-I'm not one to deny them. Provided they aren't any younger than me when I first smoked (18)
its their choice to smoke weed, not the parents. but i would be cool with it if they smoked responsibly and had all their affairs in order.
id let my kids smoke when i have em. 16 for a daughter 14 for a son. id want to be the first person to smoke with or as soon as i found out smoek with em. better i teach them about it than their idiot friends who are just learning about it. am i right? and on top of it id rather have em cheefin in my basement were i can keep an eye on them and their friends instead of out being retarded and possibly kill someone, or themself, or get into trouble
hmmm i would let them discover it on their own, but stop them if they were too young for it, if they showed an interest in it or trying it id talk to them about it and say i do/used to smoke and then blaze them up.. when i think theyre ready thats how my parents handled it (for the most part) and now all is chill, they dont get shit, and i get to blaze mah erb
Why would you let your son smoke @ 14 and your daughter has to wait til 16? Thats sexism at its worst don't you think?
id want them to discover it on their own, and wouldnt really want to wreck it by trying to be 'the cool parent that smokes weed with their kid', at least until they are like 18 or 19, or just mature enough to take it easy. id pretend like i didnt know about it or something, if they were smoking in their room (incense, etc), but eventually id leave a few clues like rolling papers or a roach hanging around, let it happen gradually. but kids are definetly not high on my list of things i want. so i dont think ill have to deal with this situation.
Shit, no. I mean, if I ever have kids, I'm not gonna go out of my way to be a nazi about it or anything, but at the same time I'm also not gonna actually condone drug use. That might seem a bit hypocritical as I've done quite a few drugs in my day, but I was never obvious about it since I knew my parents didn't approve, and I would expect my children to do the same. Really, outsmarting your parents should be some kind of rite of passage or something. :toetap: