I was with a couple of friends and we were laughing alot. She was looking a lot at us with her friend so I decided to talk to her, we had a little chat but not for much long, she left afterwards. Later that same day, I saw her again ( we were at this event), anyway and we started talking alot. She was smiling alot to me, laughing too with a beautiful smile, she isn't ''hot'' like very very beautiful, but she ain't bad looking either. I would say average, cute. Anyway, she's smaller than me, about 5'3-5'4 and is a good person. I got her msn but I'm so shy to add her. Now you guys must be asking yourselves why? Well it's because I know how msn convos go, people don't really talk much. And I'm afraid I talk to her then nobody talks.. Most of my friends told me that she's interested in me, and it looked like it. Problem is, she kinda lives far from me, not really, about 10-15 minutes. But still, she doesn't live in the same city but it's pretty close. But I'm afraid that I wouldn't be able to see her much or start something with her, you know. Any comments/advices/suggestions?
ditto, think of the children its important when starting to date another person to find out if they share your interests in beginning a family and having children as you do
You are 16........time to step back and be 16. I hear, in this post, too many ifs......walk away and find someone close that you want to date and use PROTECTION. Other than that be 16 and live and learn.
True story: My son is 18. He met this girl, they've been seeing each other for about two months. She lost her home, so he moved out on his friends, screwed them on the lease, got an apartment, moved her and himself in. All of this against the advice of his family and friends. Yesterday, after living together for a week they had a fight, she left and spent the night with her ex-boyfriend. This morning I had to talk him out of killing himself. I would have thought that after 18 years I could stop telling him to do stupid shit every time we talk. But... oh well. Moral of the story? Some people aren't mature enough for a committed relationship EVER. Don't stress over relationships. They either happen or they don't. Enjoy your youth. You'll look back on it fondly. If you skip it, you'll end up bitter. You don't want that.
Damn dude... I guess it also shows that even when given the best advice good people will still make mistakes. Eighteen year old broken hearts usually mend quickly and perhaps next time your boy will listen to you.
Wow Zoomie... I'm sorry. Um you don't sound interested or otherwise you'd do it. You're sixteen and yeah you shouldn't be stressing out over a relationship. I did and it wasn't worth it. I mean I learned a lot but yeah the stress just doesn't seem worth it. Enjoy having fun.
go get the engagement ring, msn her and tell her you want to meet and when you guys do, tell her you want to spend the rest of your life with her
