For as long as I can remember, I've suffered major premature ejaculation (I mean literally seconds!). It can be devestating because you have no idea what a new sexual partner is going to think and paranoia is always there. But something I taught myself to do (and quite well, I must admit!) is to stay hard and carry on having sex straight after cumming (having some help is always an advantage!) ... that way, I can go on for pretty much as long as I like. My question is this ... would you think it would be a turn-off cumming in seconds or a turn-on that I can carry on afterwards?
Spuff - many guys can carry on for a minute or so after orgasm before getting soft. I have developed eight or nine techniques that men with premature ejaculation can use to overcum it. PM me to learn more. I am a lay sex therapist and I have helped a lot of guys with this problem. I do it free of charge - just name your kid after me.
i hope youre changing the condom after you ejaculate, if youre using one, otherwise theres a chance of slippage/breaking/squeezing out and thatd defeat the purpose of a condom i love when my bf comes pretty fast. i dry up fairly fast and i cant handle hours of intercourse. he lasts more than a few seconds mind you, since i do enjoy intercourse.. just not for super long periods of time
I would say its a bit positive, and if you re-gain your erection quite quickly afterwards then I reckon you could go for quite a while without cumming again.
I don't re-gain my erection ... I've learned to keep it there! Although it's always easier with assistance! lol