What is it about a man that turns you on?

for me, its the eyes and facial structure... ( like a strong jaw line.)

 

i love guys with soft hands. like when they just barely brush against your skin. the curly hair thing def. is a turn on for me, and intense eyes, no real specific color, but blue usually wins me over, as long as they have an intense gaze. Smiling def. is good. and lanky guys are super sexy!

 

Thats me all the way :H

 

Mmm... I almost forgot about v-cuts... :drool: That's probablly one of the sexiest thing a guy could have.

 

when a guy is working with his hands and doing something natural with them. nothing flashy or fake. to see a guy messing around in the dirt, planting things, or to see a guy rescuing a beached fish or earthworm or get out on the highway to help a turtle cross. or to see a guy holding a baby or playing with a child or animal. basically, just acts of kindness and an earthy, natural quality.

oh, and long hair, and the courage to wear or do or say or feel ANYTHING. (except cruelty, violence, etc.) i like that my boyfriend drives a teeny, tiny geo metro. most guys our age have to speed and pass everyone in huge gas-guzzling pickups and suv's or sportscars with loud engines and exhaust in order to feel like "real men". what tiny-cocked, tiny-brained losers.

 

Driving fast is fun, hun, it isn't some desperate cry for masculinity.

 

oh sunny cynic, i so agree with you! those are totaly the qualities of a real man.

 

why don't you come and meet my neighbors? my boyfriend has actually had it said to him that only "queers" drive little cars and worry about fuel efficiency. they really feel more masculine in these machines. you should see their faces when they pass you. when they pass a woman in a parking lot they stomp the gas and puff out their chests. then everyone hears their loud muffler and turns around to look. many of them plaster "bad ass boys drive bad ass toys" on the back glass. a local car dealership actually advertises their pickups as "a real man's truck." so trust me, they really do feel more masculine this way. why else would they all brag about how fast they drove today ONLY TO GIRLS! and in most cases, driving fast is quite dangerous.

 

thanks, wanderin. i'm glad somebody agrees with me and likes genuine people. they are pretty hard to find most of the time.

 

thats my dream guy....except i must add; no facial hair, chest hair, or excessive body hair. softly angled face, just enough muscle tone to cover boniness, and pale skin. and long, slender fingers with clean nails. i like my men to be slightly feminine, but not so much in their demeanor and attitude.

 

well, I think I can sum it up...

Tall, thin, muscular (but not too buff), with long hair and facial & body hair (although not a Neanderthal), strong hands, abs, a but that is not flat but not too big, clean, but smells like a man, strong jaw line, kind, deep eyes.

funny, confidant, intelligent, honest, loving, kind...

ladies, we have our perfect guy...

now just go find one like that

 

I got workers here yesterday, and one made a joke about the other, about being strong like a man, and he said: " he think he is strong like a man but he only smells like a man" which made me laugh, cause the guy really smelled bad. But apparently was unawared of it! LOL!

 

It sounds like me. lol jk I'm somewhat intelligent, but as I am getting older.. I am starting to suffer from brainfarts though. Oh, someone help me..help me..PLEASE !
What forum am I on again? Is it the make love forum? mmm yeah..ba..be. lol

 

What attrackt me is the spiritual and intelectual connection. What I feel inside about him, how I perceive him, his aura, I never go for hair color or eyes color or high, but i have noticed that there is a pattern. Something.. Like being funny, and being kind, very romantic, and sensible, being sweet, being strong, and a good kisser, with lots of passion, but whats attract me the most is love.
If i can feel the love then.. all is good.

 

Lol! "somewhat intelligent"! lol dont be such a critic of youreself, love.. you are a geni!
Brainfart are a necessity as we become older, we got too much stuff up there, and got to get rid of some, or we couldnt survive.
Like between remebering what time is the date and a pizza, if you are hungry, your brain will remember the pizza.
lol!
want sex on the beach..again?

 

Do you think if I smoke pot, it will help me with my brainfarts? lol I don't think so..smelling it only makes me horny and I want to take my clothes off.
I don't smoke it, but have been to parties/rock concerts where it was there before.

 

Why do you beleive that you always have to justify yourself of being good, and not doing wrong, and being political correct, all the time?
There si no priest nor judgement court anywhere around you.
Maybe inside your head, sweetie, so do me a favor, will you?
Get rid of whatever is opressing you like that and be free to think and feel as you like to.
Smoke pot?
big deal, and so what?
Good it makes you want to throw your clothes off love, tha tonly proves that it is what you got in mind all the time and what oyu want to do the most: beign naked!
Me too.
If i smoke pot, I get horny, like the one who created the word Horny.
So we got the same syndrom.
Shall we then wish we never will be in the same room smelling (lol) pot together, or that wewill be alone in that room, and indulge in being free and doing as we want to, like being in love and making love?
I hope that i didnt shrugg the political-correct-justifications-court and priest-and father-figure inside you, the wrong way, or we are in trouble. Again..

 

Can you please get back on topic. You are just rude.

 

Sorry dear i just tried answering a users questions.. sorry if it bothered you.

 

brains.
the larger the better.
the only thing that matters is his level of intellect.