Fuck...that ^^^ is so wrong. If he's not ready for marrage he should not be forced to do it. He can take care of the kid without being married to her. But dude if u wanna be unhappy for t he rest of ur life go ahead and let them force on one the biggest decisions u'll ever make in ur life on u. I hate i t when ppl think ppl should get married bc they r having a baby...its so stupid. But do whatever makes u happy..thats the key to it all....as long as u do t he right thing and take care of the kid. And r u sure it's urs? Not all women can be trusted....n i would wait until the kid is born if ur gonna mary her bc of the baby to get a preturnity test done. But do what u wanna do Good luck to u buddy.
Here's the Best marriage advice you'll ever get - Don't Get Married Marriage isn't needed to love someone - Just love each other and co-exist with one another. A ring, a piece of paper, and a $5,000 wedding bill isn't going to magically make everything better. Just love each other without judging each other.
If the child is his, then he will not really have the time or freedom to wander around and live at his will for a long time after the child is born. He should enjoy his last bit of freedom before he begins his 18 year sentence. He is not ready to be a dad anyway. Maybe he will get lucky and there will be a miscarriage or the paternity test will reveal that some one else is the sperm donor.
lol thanks aspirine some more advice from the wise. I have nobody else to talk to about this , thank you all so very much. namaste