I was talking about how i want a threesome with me, my boyfriend and another chick. I want a threesome where my boyfriend and the other girl can do foreplay and what not, but i dont want him to penetrate her, just for my own reasons. I mean she can suck him off and he can do whatever he wants, but i probably couldnt handle him having sex with someone else, anyway I was wondering if anyone has done this??? and what it was like, if it was worth it? anything similiar?? Love Amanda
Are you sure you want to tdo this? I mean If i had a boyfriend i wouldnt want to share him with anyone, let alone let a chick suck him off... think about how you'll feel afterwards, it may sound really exciting thing to do but will your relationship survive? i've heard many stories of couples who have had threesomes and say that something changes between them, it's like they lose the intimacy that they two share...well, i wouldnt do a threesome unless i was the third person. anyways, good luck.
i wouldn't do it yet. frankly i'd wait till you were single and what not. a threesome with three girls would be cool. *creeps away*
this kind of doesnt relate to the first post but o well. anyways i think i heard this in movie or something: if youre a guy and you already have a girlfriend and so cheat on her with 2 other girls at the same time, technically its not cheating because the 2 other girls cancel each other out. i dont think anyone should take that seriously but its funny to hear
Out of all the people I know who have done the 3some or other group situation, it's not uncommon for there to be some sort of boundaries involved. The last one I was in I was the 3rd party involved and we kept it at oral. The point of a 3some is to have fun. If someone isn't having fun, then it needs to stop immediately. Make whatever rules or boundaries you need to feel safe and secure, but don't be too strict to the point where someone's needs aren't being met. I won't bother with all of the warnings and whatnot of established couples and additional partners since that's been covered in several threads now. Good luck to ya and I don't think your rules are bad ones.
I think your idea is sweet - Id only do a 3some again if I was in love with one of the chics and we were stable - once you have that you should be fine if there's no intercourse.
I get the feeling that a 3some might just be one of those things where the fantasy beats the real thing... and really, who'd wanna ruin that fantasy? I mean geeze, making love Shania Twain and Faith Hill at the same time, call me old fasion, but thats something I'll keep in the fantasy department (unless of course they really did show upto my house for exactly that... then I might have to reconsider- but really, what are the odds?)
i think you should be really confident, and self-confident, or perfect strangers... i mean it is really complicated... i dont' even know if i'd do that... even thoug my first dream is being loved by a girl and a boy in the same moment... (i'm bi) maybe a intriguing solution is you and your partner being watched by a third boy or girl...
I think if you are going to threeway anything goes, limiting your bf and the other girl just doesn't sound like you are ready to experience it all. Why not limit the whole experience to oral only, that way it would be equal. But if you're not okay with the the idea of him doing another girl then I wouldn't do it.
Amanda, Your threesome idea makes sense to me. Set some boundaries that your are comfortable with. Make sure your boyfriend can stick to them I've done a few threesomes. The thing is, no matter what, it's the girls that count. You and the girl have to get it off. Go all the way. Until you have loved another girl, you don't know what you have missed. The way to do a threesome is you are sharing your love for another woman with your boyfriend. Not you are sharing your boyfriend with another woman. See the difference? I was invited to one last year because a friend of mine knew I was mature and could stay back and watch her get it on with her friend. And then, join in when they were satisifed and finish the session with my manliness. They didn't want me to but in too early and they didn't want me to watch and not do anything at all. See? Yes, and it was great too. Good luck, Mark
Well the way i see it is that its not him, its me too, like its actually my fantasy and i want to have sex with a chick pretty bad. I dont mind when im included, like if i look at a chick and say she has a nice arse and he says yeah, nice legs too, i dont care, its when he's trying to sneak around me to have a look at girls that bothers me. We both lost our virginity to eachother so it means alot to me... Love Amanda
