Im not sure if this is where this is supposed to go but i'll put it here anyway. So i think somethings wrong with me. Last night my b/f and i were going at it and we were masterbating each other.I was reallly really into it at first,i was really turned on a nd for a whil all i could think about was just jumping on him and riding him. Then he started to finger me..and all of a sudden...nothing. I just wasnt horny anymore...that feeling just left me.Just disappeared. But i didnt tell him that i let him continue in the hope that i would start feeling horny again.But i didnt.And then i told him and he said ok mabye he should give me a massage to kinda help me relax,since its been a little while. He was giving me the massage and then he turned me over on my back and started to go down on me i started to get into it again...then the feeling just went away. :& I have no clue whats going on. And then we kinda got into a fight. Any ideas on what might be wrong? Anyone? This is the first time that this has happened.
Slow me i just realized that this should have been inthe relationship section....i think. But advice please. I think i really need it. Thnx
Something may be bothering you that you havn't put your finger on yet. Hopefully, this is an islolated incident. Good luck.
I hope it is too. I mean Friday when he cam back from his trip into late Saturday morning we were all over each other...and i was having no problems then. But suddenly last night everythign just went wrong.
In general, sudden loss of libido is most commonly related fatigue, stress, or depression. So, anything occurring in your life that gives rise to those things could be contributor. Or, if you've been with your boyfriend for some time, it's fairly normal to lose some of that burning passionate sexual heat that so characterizes new relationships. Whether any of that is the case or not, I wouldn't worry much about an isolated incident. Peace and good luck.
