communication barrier!!

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Natalie_18, Jun 17, 2007.

  1. Natalie_18

    Natalie_18 Member

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    hey...

    i need some edvice with communication :& ..... over the last few months i've been finding it hard to communicate with my boyfriend... i used to be able to tell him everything and i mean everything....once when i wasn't getting much response i stopped telling him stuff.. now its go to the point where im finding it hard to tell him how i feel about something and me even ringing him i find scary....

    hmmm im sort of looking for advice on how i can get that communication back :)

    natalie x
     
  2. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Could you be more specific as to why you stopped telling him stuff? You weren't getting much response once? It was just one time, and that made you stop? What were you telling him and how did he respond, exactly?

    Maybe you just need to start communicating again even if you find it scary. Maybe it's scary at first, but then it will become less scarier over time.
     
  3. Natalie_18

    Natalie_18 Member

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    i felt he wasnt listening it occured a couple of times
     
  4. Riggs

    Riggs Banned

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    You need to tell him how you feel. You told us, now tell him. Tell him we need to talk, you and him find the time, and talk until something is worked out between the both of you. Good luck !
     
  5. Natalie_18

    Natalie_18 Member

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    thank you riggs :)
     
  6. dtownballer

    dtownballer Member

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    i guess it just comes with the longevity of the relationship, not to say that it happens to everyone

    but yeah just talk to him and be honest and tell him that u need the communication in the relationship
     
  7. Natalie_18

    Natalie_18 Member

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    okay thank you i'll try that
     

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