How should I feel!? Help!

Discussion in 'Genitalia' started by LottsaSolitude, Jun 20, 2007.

  1. LottsaSolitude

    LottsaSolitude Member

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    Ok, I'm 16 (i know, my profile says I'm 18, yadda yadda yadda). I went to the doctor the other day, and I have to get Circumsised!!! I have phimosis!! :$

    Is it a good thing!? or a Really bad thing!? For me and my girlfriend!?

    Any views!? Thanks...
     
  2. ACE69

    ACE69 Member

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    ounch ! i got it done when i was a baby.... so didnt really have to feel it. The chicks dig the circumsised cock.
     
  3. rasprophecy

    rasprophecy Member

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    get it circumsized... if anything you should be glad... ladies dont like that uncircumsized animal dick...
     
  4. -moonshine-memi-

    -moonshine-memi- Member

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    excuse me.
    i prefer uncircumsized.


    anyways. if its for health reasons its probably better.
    poor thing... is there any natural things you can do?

    thats very unfortunate ... and embarassing.

    i'm sure you'll get through it
     
  5. LottsaSolitude

    LottsaSolitude Member

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    The embarressed smile I had on my face Dissappeared like Lightning when he told me. He said the best option was circumcision. So no, nothing natural can be done...

    Unfortunate and Embaressing are the right words, yes.
    I'm expecting to look down after it gets cut, to see an peeled piece of cheese-string...
     
  6. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    wait what??????
    you ask a doctor he recomeds circumcision
    you feekl this strongly about it..
    & then say nothing natural can be done about it?
    have u looked into it?
     
  7. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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  8. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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    not enough masturbation.
     
  9. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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  10. Crunkville TX

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    yea get it done...
     
  11. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    get a second opinion
     
  12. LottsaSolitude

    LottsaSolitude Member

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    Nope! I never asked for it haha. But it was considered best for me.

    So then question rasied is simple - Is circumcision the best option!?
     
  13. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    are you seriously going to use random internet peopel as your second opinion on a SERIOUS medical decision?
     
  14. Lady of the Freaks

    Lady of the Freaks Senior Member

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  15. brack1936

    brack1936 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Yeah do what soaringeagle says. It's nice when you know that you know as much as the doctors. If you find nothing else can be done to help youself, just think how nice it will be when you know that you will never get your foreskin caught in your fly again. :)
     
  16. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    Lottsasolitude - Phimosis is a problem that I have advised a number of young men about, and as a number of posters here have done, it is not something to be made light of.

    There are two types of phimosis: 1. The foreskin will not retract over the glans (head), either at all or only partially, and 2. The frenulum (the stringy thing in the "inverted v" on the underside of the glans) is too short, and prevents the foreskin from fully retracting.

    Phimosis can result in infections developing under the foreskin, due to an inability to clean the smegma and other secretions and left over urine found there, and can result in decreased sensitivity during sex. Recent studies have also shown that uncut guys are more susceptible to STDs and HIV, and if the foreskin cannot retract, this would be even more of a problem during unprotected sex.

    Circumcision will take care of the foreskin retraction problem (and make sure it is a "loose" cut, leaving as much of the foreskin to remain loose behind the glans as possible), and the frenulum problem is dealt with by a frenuloplasty, a v shaped cut at the top of the frenulum which serves to lengthen it and allow foreskin retraction. Make sure the doctor who performs the operation is skilled in the procedure, as circumcision is not commonly done in Ireland.

    Please pm me for more personal advice which will not be seen by those who have an anti-circ agenda. I am a lay sex therapist and would like to help you get through this. Believe me, you will be happy with it when it is done.
     
  17. Nalencer

    Nalencer Dig Yourself

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    Jesus, don't believe the doctor without looking into it yourself. A doctor saying there are no alternatives is not to be trusted, at all. There almost always are alternatives to the doctor's solution.
     

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