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Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by omikse, Jun 10, 2007.

  1. omikse

    omikse Member

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    So I've got this thing going on with a guy ... he wants to sleep with me, and so do I ... but I've never really done that much with a guy so I've got no idea what to expect. Is it wrong to just jump into bed with a guy I hardly know?

    And if you go down on a guy should they wear a condom?
     
  2. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    SHOULD wear a condom yes, but, i find in practise its not something most people do. at least from what i've seen. that doenst mean you can't do it, and all the power to you if you do.
    as far as hopping in bed is concerned, if he wants to and you want to, then go for it. its all about how you'll see yourself later on, if you're okay with it, then great. if you dont think you should, then wait it out and get to know the guy better
     
  3. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    umm i take it your a virgin? & you barely know this guy & he just wants to sleep with you id seriusly give it time get a bit of respect first & get to know him chances are u may find hes a total jerk & if u jump right into bed with him give up your virginity to an asshole you could regret it a very long time
    guys can act all nice & sweet to get what they want & turn around completely after they get it & show theyre true colors, but if you have a relationship with em several months or so b4 jumping into sex you'll probly see the real him come out long b4 u get there & if he starts pushing u for sex right away knowing your a virgin, id be wearry
    how well d u know him? how long?
     
  4. omikse

    omikse Member

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    thanks guys ...
    I've known him for about a month. I don't think I'm just gonna let him sleep with me to start with ... I'll just have some fun with him and keep getting to know him then see what happens. As much as I want to do, I don't wanna find out hes a complete wanker and never being able to go back ...
     
  5. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    smart decision, theres no rush
    good luck & hope he does turn out to be a decent person & you get all you hope for
     
  6. omikse

    omikse Member

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    cheers.
     
  7. omikse

    omikse Member

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    ok so ... I had some fun with this guy. I went down on him and now I've got a really sore throat and it hurts to swallow. What are the chances of catching something off this guy? And how can I fix it? bc I'm starting to freak ...
    The left side of my neck hurts to touch but my glands aren't swollen so I don't reackon it's glandular.
     
  8. the_glowing_coconut

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    definitely go to the doctor, you may have an STD.

    and USE PROTECTION, geez. what do you expect if you don't?
     

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