Title says it all. Im a 20year old man with a very acctractive girl friend who is kinkey and does everything (-anal wich sucks). When where having sex i cant cum and she cums all the time. I am very attrated to her and im hard as hell all the time during sex. She only got me to cum twice and that was via a very long blowjob. I Love the girl so its not an emotional thing she is on protiction and as the morning after pill + i wear a condom so im not worried at all. Yesterday before she left to FL she gave me a 24 min blowjob and i couldnt cum. I know the time cuz we had to leave to catch her plane and i counted the difference after it. I tried not thinking about cuming and just think about the feeling. She is doing everything right down there. Then only thing i can think of is that i have a larger then average dick. Its not huge but its 7in and very thick. I have to use magnums because the other condoms are hard to get over my head and if they do i cant feel anything but itself. She is also very tight but not a virgin so its not like she is loss and when i masterbate i do it to her and i cum. Any help would be amazing thanks
Jmill - noone has responded, so I will try. Are you masturbating a lot before having intercourse? Are you circumcised or uncircumcised? Your answers may govern my response. Do you always use a condom? What thickness? Oftentimes the inability to have an orgasm in a young man is mental - you are subconsciously afraid to cum inside her, fear of pregnancy. So loosen up, have a little booze or weed, and relax before you do it. Do a lot of foreplay, especially oral. PM me for more help if you wish.
You shouldnt need a Magnum for your personal size, try durex, lubricated they are easy to put on and work fine. Trojans in general i think are a little smaller, and dont feel as comfortable (for me anyways). I also think mental status is very important. RELAX. Have fun. Sounds like you are a very lucky man. Just think about HER when you guys are fooling around. Try not to think so much and just make love to her. And if that doesnt work, then dont use a condom anymore (she is on the pill yes? And nobody has stds? Then you should be fine). Oral is often times hard to make a guy get off. More girls are bad at oral than good, so if shes just not that good then tell her what gets you off. But it sounds like you just need to loosen up a little. Maybe not wear a condom, and when she is giving oral, tell her to mix it up a little and use her hand or somethin, and possibly you could even show her the way to do it. Hope this helps, your problem is very fixable and something very small to worry about. So dont feel so bad.
