there are a million guys on here starting threads about whether or not their penis is small and no girls asking if they are 'normal'. guys are weird
lol what would a girl ask?... i mean, we know about boob sizes and stuff i think... and i'm certainly not going to stick a ruler up inside me to see how deep i am... not that i really care actually. hmm.... girls are self-conscious too, i think we just try to hide it more... it is interesting that girls aren't coming on here asking, "looks or personality? would you go for an overweight, averagely attractive girl with a great sense of humor and brains, or a totally georgeous broad with only partying on her brain and not much else..." i've seen a few of those kinds of posts on here recently... and i think most girls already know the answers to that question.
what about labia size? lots of girls are self conscious about that there's LOTS of different ways to look down there where the hell have you been, woman?
There's lots of pressure put on us boys about our penis size. There was a thread not long ago that had a graph: penis length & girth vs. women's pleasure. Good god!!!! I looked at that graph and thought that there must be a lot of unsatisfied women out there. Maybe we boys bring the pressure on ourselves (I think that thread was started by a guy), I don't know. But it sure seems like penis size is important to a lot of people. Personally, I've never been too worried about it.
i couldn't care less about penis size seriously everyone, IT DOESN'T MATTER why is there still people who think it does that chart makes me laugh...who the fuck made that up
warning...graphic pictures... http://www.labiaplasty.org/LabiaSurgeryPhotos.htm here's some examples of before and after labiaplasty also, i can't remember exactly how big they CAN get but i've seen some pictures online (cant find them now) of labia i certainly would be self conscious about if it was me
ehhhh, can't say those pictures were very appealing.. although i wouldn't really care if a girl had big ol flower petals down there like those pics as long as it looked clean, those photos were aaahhk!
i agree, those photos weren't very appealing however, i have large labia (i like to think they look better than those pictures though...) here's an example of some that aren't quite as 'bad'..(not saying that anyone's labia look bad..i just think without any hair, they look much more appealing this picture is from www.thebigvagina.com it's an excellent site they have a good forum but hardly anyone posts on it do NOT go to the vagina institute website, they have a quiz to see if your vagina is ugly or not! so not good for the self esteem, and totally wrong! it says when women have large labia, etc..and don't look "normal" *rolls eyes* it means their vagina is not healthy! give me a break.... warning...more graphic photos http://www.altermd.com/female/Figure11.htm i'm not sure if i agree that anyone is really a good candidate for labiaplasty, unless it seriously effects their self esteem or something. i try not to say any of the before pictures are "unsightly" because they're all natural and there's no normal way to look, really to each their own i guess
I'm totally self concious of my labia! I have a 'big vagina'. I hate it. I'd love to have one of those surguries. Except that my bf say's he loves my lips. Think's they're absolutly fantastic. *Shrugs* I guess we're all made in a certain way, right? Just wish i didn't feel so bad about them.
don't feel bad, almost all of my FEMALE friends make fun of girls who have large labias. the first time i heard one of them say something i wanted to say "excuse me!?" it made me feel even more self conscious...but i've learned to get over it. my boyfriend doesn't seem to mind, so it's not biggie really! funny too, one time my best friend and i slept over at our boyfriends' house, and the next morning we (my best friend and i) had a shower together to save time because we had to leave..haha and i didn't say anything but i'm sure she noticed because after that i never heard her make fun of girls with "big vaginas" again... but the fact that it was only my girl friends who i heard complaining about this is kind of funny..guys don't seem to care either way..
I'm still shocked to hear this is an issue, especially an issue worth getting surgery about. I think its a big plot by plastic surgeons to find things to make people self conscience about so they have work. At least from my point of view i would never let anyone do any kind of surgery down there unless it was life or death. even then i would have to think about it.
i totally agree especially when there's the risk that there would be nerve damage down there *shudder* that would suck haha in a recent issue of vanity fair, or cosmo or something (i can't remember what magazine...) there was a story about women who do the surgery themselves (!!!) and sometimes even remove the clit, mainly for esthetic reasons...geez!!
Jeez, it's crazy that women dislike their vulva's enough that they're willing to risk surgery to change the shape of them. I think you're right Sultan - it's a plot to make people self conscious about their bodies. Why worry about the things that can only be changed through risky and pricey surgeries? Learn to be happy with yourself! As for why women aren't too worried about guys penis size - so long as the guy is enjoying himself and helping the woman enjoy herself too, size doesn't matter that much. "It's not the size of the wand, but the magic that's in it" (cheesy yes, but true)
mmm, thats the lovely thing about being self concious about something. There's no light switch to just turn it off. I'm just nervous that I'll actually repulse someone because of it.
if anyone is repulsed by your body, then they don't deserve to be with you! i know it's hard to just "turn off the switch" and make nagging ideas in the back of your head go away, but it helps to know that other people go through the same things and like i said, if anyone can't accept you for you, whatever aspect of you it is, then to hell with em
