Sex is starting to feel different, any reason why? please help

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by squeaky0032, Jun 18, 2007.

  1. squeaky0032

    squeaky0032 Member

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    Ok, here is the deal, me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for like 6 weeks or so now, and last week on a sunday i believe, i managed to get her to orgasm 14 times, in 2 sexual sessions...

    but ever since then, sex feels different for the both of us, not emotionally but physically...

    she doesnt seem to get as wet, and today, just now actually, she didnt seem to feel anything much at all, kind of like there was a shortage in her feeling somewhere...

    its not the size of my dick, because its 8 and slowly getting bigger, as we have both noticed since like 6 weeks ago... so does anyone have any idea why, after one AMAZING day, ever since then it has slowly turned to almost no feeling for her?
     
  2. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    14 orgasms... jeesh... maybe she ran out of them? :eek:

    Haha sorry, I don't really have any constructive advice for you.. :( Maybe take a break from sex for a bit?
     
  3. Biggen

    Biggen Banned

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    hahahahah...niticable penis growth in six weeks....hahahahahahaha
     
  4. squeaky0032

    squeaky0032 Member

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    we did take a break...

    and well, we arent the only 2 to notice, lol, her friends and my friends notice too...
     
  5. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    foreplay foreplay foreplay
    dont rush spend alot more time getting her excited before plunging on in..

    but also could be a frequency issue, overdoing it especialy with more agressive or rough sex can cause lil desensitation, take lil time off & see
    also, mood, if the feelings arent 100% there, if your all into it & shes more like just going through the motions to please u or to get u to stop buggin her for sex then she wont be fully receptive to it & chances are wont allow herself to experience all the pleasure she could..
    maybe shes tired of you pulling it out & saying ohh look how much bigger i am today..lol
    theres too many factors that could affect it, including drug/alcahol use at the time, emotional facters, thoughts disrupting her pleasure (a negative thought creeping in at the wrong momment can seriusly delay the flow) could be the ampint of time you spend together between foreplay & sex, you could be 80 inches & it wouldnt matter if you skip foreplay shove it in & be done in 2 min or less..
    & lastly..clitoril stimulation, very few women ever cum from penetration alone, are you paying enough attention to her clit before & during?
    could be possitional, tempo not being sensative & aware of her arousal level (breathing, moaning & other clues that tell u when to slow down or speed up)
     
  6. Loveminx

    Loveminx Sports Racer

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    It's like taking a drug and having amazing sex...it raises your expectations for next time and average sex ends up not being good enough.

    Make sure you tell her that you don't expect it to be as good as last time, to relax...she probably feels pressured to orgasm a lot and its just not possible because of her hormones or how she feels. Sometimes you don't feel like trying when expectations get too high.
     
  7. Lorna

    Lorna The Magician

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    jUST TAKE A BREAK thats all.
    give it a week and it will be the same again.
    take it organically, you ad yoru peek now its the dale it will come up again in a short time.
    As for the silly coment of jealous biggen, the penis get bigger with practice, specialy if the guy didnt have some for a while..
    so yes it gets bigger within weeks, just as any other muscles in your body, if you train them for week, they get noticeably bigger..
    The guy did some heavy work out, and now got the results..
    Squeaky you are all too hungry. eat a pizza instead, and smell the flowers with her for a while.
    Must be other stuff you can do with her than just having sex..no?
     
  8. squeaky0032

    squeaky0032 Member

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    well, here is the deal

    i pay ALOT of attention to foreplay... trust me

    its my favorite, im a different kind of guy, i love to PLEASE HER before myself...

    i love oral, giving... i dont like receiving, and i dont bug her for anything

    she tells me she wants to fuck, and we go... foreplay is important to her and me, and i do it as well as i can

    we are taking a break to see how things work.
     
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