how many of you have ever had unsafe sex with someone you didn't know at all or perhaps just a bit? if so, did you go out and get tested shortly afterwards, or did you just try to put it out of your mind? did you even care? I knew someone who lost their virginity using a condom (which didn't break), with another person almost equally inexperienced, and this guy totally freaked afterwards because he thought it was entirely possible he had caught something because "you never know"; conversely, another guy I know get's too drunk to know better and sometimes has unprotected sex, and doesn't ever seem to think it will catch up with him.
Unsafe sex is like putting a loaded gun to your head. Get tested if there is even the slightest hint of a symptom, and what about the sperm deposited in the woman? Babies can result.
not if its like at the very end of her period or or right before it startes. I think those are the safest times.
