It would not bother me in the least bit. Honestly, I think that I'd have to have a pretty low self esteem to let something like that bother me.
Doesn't bother me. I like looking at porn. I'd probably by some for him and end up using it for myself as well. I don't see a problem with it. The more you restrict someone the more tempted they will be to do it.
If I had them and my lady didn't want me to have them, I would trash them. If me having them really hurt the one I love so bad (made her feel less of a woman), it will go before I would let her go.
I dont think its a big problem, but what is a problem is the use of women to do so, and also hte porno industry abuse of women and women slavage, and we do support those things when we buy a porno mag. Also porno movies have a very bad influnce on sex life and can destroy iot entirely, and supres the clseness and love from the 2 when they make love wif they watch too much porn. Youngster watching porno via internet all the time have their sex life destroyed before it had begun, and the effect are very devastating. It isnt about to explore ones sexlife, but more that the love part of it is set totally aside in those porn moives, who only focus on the mechanical part of it. It is proven to be very damaging on youngs and comeing generation and less young as well, as printing in them a picture of sex as soemthing where they do waht they want and abuse women. More emotional kind exist but are hard to found..and it is anyway better to make love with the one you love than watching people who dont love one another but are here to make a living, doing so.. Nude are fine, but maybe it also depend on what kind of porno mag the guy is looking at..
Yea, but if he's looking at somthing that does degrades woman... then it could just be a turn on him to him anyway, everyone has their own sexual fetishes. I find Playboy is a very tastefull porn magazine....
Well, think of it this way. He's going to masturbate with or without it. I don't like most porn just because there are so many women who are just... unrealistic. Fake. Disgusting. If my significant other had a modest porn stash, it probably wouldn't bother me. I just don't find most of it attractive.
Sorry for the intrusion. Make your men happy and do the things that they what to experience and there would be no need for them to even need porn. But porn does help people in relationships venture into things that they have not tried before. Its has definetly some major pros and cons. I dont look at porn mags anymore. My gf whom I love very much is too self contious about her own body not comparing to another womans. Your man has to respect what you want. simple as that.
I remember a time where my husband and I were sitting at our table having a normal "how was your day" conversation while I was reading his playboy. So I'd say, I'm not against it. But he doesn't hide it either. It's out in plain view. We've even discussed that all the women are somewhat airbrushed. I know that if he is looking at these magazines for that reason other than just the articles (yes there are men out there that just read the articles) it's just a fantasy anyway. I think I look at the pics of the naked women more than he does. If I were totally against these types of magazines I know he wouldn't get them, because he loves and respects me and wouldn't want to upset me. But since I don't mind them it doesn't matter if he has them or not. Communication is key and honesty is the best policy.... aka, if you have a problem with them speak up, and the men folks shouldn't hide them like they're a dirty little secret.
I don't want to have to rely on porn to have an orgasm. It becomes so much easier when I do, but I can do without it.
I believe there is a strong link between supply and demand. I am not in favour of supplying men with vulnerable young naked female errotica. Men do not need porn to masturbate.
I've noticed a trend in the small sample of men(as opposed to the 'every man' generalization) I am privileged to know that as they grew older (seems to hit at the 30 mark) the air brushed tarts in pr0n became uninteresting, stale, unrealistic and they look for something a little more 'real' Amateur pr0n is where it's at. People with hair on their bodies, stretchmarks, a little bit of pushn' cushion, Joe Blow dude and Mrs. Blow haven' fun. A safe good time that a couple wants to share. Bless their exhibitionist hearts.
i really dont see whats to get so upset about, men love to admire the form of woman....if he's hiding it from you its prolly because your the type to judge him for his natural urge to indulge in self gratification while looking at beautiful women. Face it, your man can love you and you alone and still appriciate what other people look like. If my boyfriend hid it from me, i would be more likeley to ask him why he thought he had to hide it...not blow up and give him more reason to hide things..i havent normally dated men who like straight up PORN, but my current partner really enjoys it, so i watch/look at it with him...im not the type to get turned on by porn (not that i dont sometimes) but i actually like watching it here and there. Its a normal natural thing and theres nothing wrong with watching people who want to be watched. In my relationships nothing makes me happier than complete honesty about all things, and if one of those things is some kind of sexual fetish - i'd rather be a part of it, or at least try to understand it - rather than estragnge myself from that part of him.
Young female erotica ? very diffrent story......i would be pretty upset to find that my partner got off looking at little girls....
yeah, it's dave's preference, too. he doesn't like women too thin and unmarked by life. thank heaven.
my fiance doesn't like porn, or doesn't prefer it, so I don't deal with that. He didn't even have a collection when we started dating that I know about lamo. But after being togething 2 and a half years, if he started up, I'd get real worried and bitchy, just bc he wasn't like that before. Now if we ever break up and I move on to a guy that has porn everywhere... I don't know. I wouldn't like it. But I don't think we'll ever break up porn is weird though.... to me.
