I have been with my boyfriend for eight months or so now. We've had alot of drama in this department, but long story short, I am getting on birth control now because I feel ready to take that step with him. Problem is, the last time I got close with him, I backed out. I suppose that was a good thing, because all we had then was a condom and hop. But after all the planning and waiting gone into this, I wonder if I won't back out again. I mean, he said he'd wait for me, 'till I was ready, and I believe him. But I hate to dissapoint him like that. Not only would I be dissapointing him, I would be dissapointing myself. I really want this, but I'm such a chicken. So, is it just cold feet? Am I just being a pussy about this?
your 15 you should take your time & be sure its right theres no hurry, & he understands that i hope, let it happen when it happens & be sure you have a clear head at the time your so young theres absolutely nothing wrong with it taking a few years if thats what is meant to be, so many young kids think that they should be doing it by 15, but thats just other kids making you feel that way, many of which may say they hd only to seem like they had to save face amonsgt peers dont let pressure push u into acting hastily, its good that your thinking sensibly about being prepared with bc but wait till your mentaly & emotionaly prepared as well
No no honey, this is YOUR choice, its not cold feet. its ok if you dont want to do it. its really fine. its better to wait and plenty of people are going to respond back with this answer. you continue waiting, you're still young, have fun.sleeping with someone is a VERY big step so make sure you're ready but IMP you should wait
You are taking a big step in your life in doing it. So you must think and plan it over and over again. If you decide to actually do it, you must also decide to stand firm with your decisions and prepare yourself for the outcome. But it is not only you who must do this. But you and your boyfriend. You better talk it over again and discuss about the pros and cons and if you're both ready to face it. You must have open communication with each other so that your plans are connected and you both understand each other's points. _______________________ conversation skills Free Report reveals secrets to making great conversation. Get it here: http://www-conversation.com/ communication skills Free Report reveals communication skills secrets that work like magic. Get it here: http://www-communicationskills.com/
if your feeling like"chicken" then something is telling you to back out i say go with your instincts.play it safe
Go with your instincts and be truthful with yourself what they really are. No one at your age believes it but he will be gone a short time from now anyway. Think and act for yourself. As long as you are ok with yourself thats all that matters really.
