Hello everyone..... I am Marian Jurica and I am from Slovakia (Slovak republic) I don´t know english very well so excuse me for my grammar, People don´t like me cause i am a hippie... it´s bad for me because i like nature...peace... flowers and all.... i wear hippi clothes what many times got me in trouble...... Many of hip-hopers hurt me. I am only 13 years old..... Help me...what do i have to do , may people like me?
First let me say your grammar is better than a lot of Americans and Brits who post here. And as the saying goes, be yourself. If someone likes you, great. If they don't, the hell with them, write them off. BTW, what's a hip-hoper?
newo, I think he means hip-hopper, the rapping "cool" kids. It's a new and disquieting fad, ugh, especially in suburban white American families. Lame... THE TRUTH, I appreciate your strength for standing up in your beliefs. I encourage you not to back down. You are entitled to be your own person, remember, think PEACE. Do not turn back and insult these kids, or hurt them. I really think you should feel sorryfor them because they are so insecure about themselves that they have to make fun of you to feel better. Not everyone will like you, that is quite impossible, but be yourself and find people who are accepting of others. Real friends are hard to find but are worth the effort. Good luck! Peace :daisy:
Don't worry Marian. I'm in the same boat as you! I've just spent all day at my school, the other kids making fun of me just because of who I am and what I believe in! Whatever you do, remember to remain true to yourself and don't change just because they tell you to! If someone ever gets you down just remind yourself that you love the world, you love life and you love yourself, you are just full of love! You don't need any of them-you are perfect the way you are! One day when they are much older (yet only slightly more mature) I assure you they're all going to wish they'd had the courage to be themselves. You are the only person brave enough not to cover your face with a mask. PM me anytime. Peace and love wished your way.
Don't worry about it. Don't let those petty people get you down. Keep doing what you're doing as long as you're happy.
oooo! just be thankful you arent vegan haha. i always get things like you cant eat that it comes from wheat and cows eat wheat so your not allowed. or i have long drawn out arguments about how PROPAGANDA makes animal rights advocates look bad but they just keep going on brainwashed as ever. And of course there is the ever popular "vegans are just one step closer to being anorexic". see this is why i hate highschool. everything is a joke. eating disorders, ethnicities, mental disorders, cutting, depression, rape, abuse, learning disabilities, drugs, alcoholism, .... ya the point is, they aint worth your time beautiful! shine on, be yourself!
ignore them. they are just trying to get you to follow what everyone else does. your unique and you'll be loved for that. just keep being yourself, you will be accepted.
Well the world hates nothing more than originality - don't sweat it, just be yourself and remember that's something very few people can do. But the people who are really your friends will like you for that. I can relate because growing up I was into listening to Jimi Hendrix and Jefferson Airplane and the Grateful Dead AND hip hop so my hippie friends didn't understand the hip hop my hip hop friends didn't understand the psychedelic music but I wasn't going to fit into a "stereotype" for either group cuz I just know how to be me. And in the end, that's all that matters - being true to yourself. Peace, love and respect. "I don't think I'm easy to talk about. I've got a very irregular head. And I'm not anything that you think I am anyway." - Syd Barrett
No matter how hard it gets, just remember that YOU are YOURSELF and you are an individual. And that already makes you better than those clones =] don't ever take offense in what they say because even though they might try and hurt you it will all work out in the end. All you need to do is continue being yourself hun Who cares about those hip-hoppers anyway? I went through something really similar last year and its getting heaps better now. Lol and your grammer is fine! Don't worry about that! We're not here to judge if you need anything you can always pm me Peace Love Jane
Aaa, countryman Well, don´t worry, when I was 13, there weren´t so big hip-hop subcultures, but there were petty bourgeois all the time. Sometimes it was hard to envisage them, but now, when I´m older I see, that a many of these people means that I´m the someone with own opinion. And in this age (13-17) I also heard about my personality very interesting meaning which came to me through 5 person, ´cuz nobody would admit of their personal (positive) thinking. Like the others said, just be your self and be proud who you are.
at 13 every1 is teased for being who they are unless you act like a clone of them, its pathetic & childish but hey thats what happens at that age dont worry about a thing in time you'll earn respect for being who u are, an individual a shinning star amongst darkest clouds, believe in what u believe in & be who you are
They are just trying to hurt your feelings so they feel better about themselves. Don't listen and try and find something to take your mind off of it. Listen to music, write, draw... be artistic. Art will sooth your spirit. Much love girl... we all go through it. And trust me, it's so hard in America. Especially as women (and increasingly more and more as men) we must look like the beautiful tan run way model with perky breast and a nice butt. And to be hippie is almost a sin. It's a battle with yourself as well as with the population... you must learn (and it is a learning thing) to accept you are who you are. It hurts to get made fun of... but if you believe your spirit leans toward hippie... then by all means live it up!
