these days in our society it seems like sex takes place with no love involved. it almost seems as if sex and love are two seperate things. so my question is how sex fits into love? like does it just come with love, an act of love? also, would a blow job be an act of love? its probably a stupid question but its like we grow up with people saying, "oya you got some tonight" or "so how far did u go with her" and its all about sex. also, is it possible that theres a great relationship, but theres a lot of sex, and it becomes based on sex and thats the main part of the relationship? and would that ruin the relationship, or atleast ruin the love in it?
Love and sex can be inter twinned so close you wouldn't know the difference. It can also be so far from love as to not even come into the picture. The two are seperate yet one. Just depends on the people. As far as relationships, they can be based on just about anything or nothing.
sex shouldnt affect an relationship where two people love eachother.. i see sex as making love.. sharing yout trust.... i enjoy and like making love to my partner.... but i do think some people may have sex to well have sex :H
To me, the love comes first. Its all about the love (or caring and sharing feeling or whatever for the more casual) The sex comes, for me, when the love gets to a certain level and i want to express it in physical form. Then every experience after that is to show love and share a joyful experience. It can get kinky, sure, but even THAT is because you want to please eachother and have fun together because of your love If youre into meaningless sex, fine, go ahead. Your life and i have nothing against it for consenting people. But if you DO feel youd like more meaning, feeling, reason, then please, dont listen to the people you talk about who treat it like it means jack shit, or its dirty or whatever it is. Follow what your heart says and have some damn good love making I personally have found EXTREMELY profound truths and magic in the art of making love Also, i personally have never really understood...if you have no feelings for the person youre having sex with whatsoever...why dont you just masturbate? I never got that, surely itd be less hassle, a lot safer, and doesnt risk getting emotions involved
