hi, yesterday my gf said to me that i should be lasting longer when we have sex?! ive been seeing her for 4 months and she said that ive never lasted more than 5mins! ive no problems getting hard again or anything like that, she is the only person ive ever had sex with, is this 2b expected seeing that im fairly new to this? would really appriciate any help as its been f**king with my head since!!
lasting more than 5 minute would be nice. personally i like short sex sessions with lots of foreplay leading up to it, but i mean like 10-20min of intercourse type short, not less than 5 min
personally..... i like loads of foreplay and oral leading to sex.... then have a short sex sesion... i see sex as making love and being close and feeling each others bodies... i thourght thats all that matters right? ..... i think once you get used to having sex you will want to try new things and u will be able to stay longer than 5mins....just try new things and each time just build on it and then see what happens
focus on pleasing her, not on the act itself... If you put your mind on something else, you can last as long as you want.
On the actual sex act itself: try slowing RIGHT DOWN when you get close to cumming. Then as the feeling diminishes, speed up again. Slower...faster...change the pace. This should help you last longer. Be conscious of your breathing and bodies. It's not about getting off, it's about awareness. As for the girlfriend: Talk to her. Share what you both want. Then work together to make it happen. It's not just about her and it's not just about you.
if she didn't like those 5 min let her deal with it ! you try ur best and if it didn't work enjoy it man and it's her problem !
LOL yea its her problem for now, when shes fucking some other dick, its gonna be his problem... take the advice above.
Wank it and get a couple shots off earlier in the day. You will be lasting longer. As you get older it will correct itself.
