I don't know what I am?

Ok, here's the thing; all my life (including now) I have been a homophobe. Gay people kind of just creep me out. And there's a beautiful woman that I see everyday that I really like, but there's another thing. There is 1 guy, who really catches my eye. I think he's really good looking, and due to my sneeze fetish I like his sneeze. But I would never date a guy. How can I tell? Am I strait or bi?

 

I think your having a laugh, but i'll humour you for the time being and leave this open
S

 

oh, and to let you know. I lied about my age, I'm really 15, and the user name was just for the hell of making it that. I don't really love anyone named ben, just as an fyi for anyone reading this.

 

What do you mean, this was a serious question.

 

fair enough, we get a lot of homophobic people on here just to have a laugh, have another read of your post and you'll see why I question your seriousness
S

 

Could someone please help me, I really need to know what I should think.

 

sneezing fetish..never heard of that. Strange haha. As far as the dude you think is good lookin. It is prob because he is. Maybe you shouldnt be such a homophobe if you are feelin attractions to other dudes. COnsider yourself bi curious for now. Chances are though if you think this dude is hot..thinking other dudes are hot is prob soon to follow in this. So might wanna start exploring your sexuality and try to make peace with the feelings you are having. Whatever those feelings may be..It's cool and no need to worry or be freaked out.

 

So, are you saying that I'm becoming gay? Or am I just passing through a wierd mental phase?

 

No real attraction felt either, he's just pretty good looking, and I like his sneeze. But the girl is way more attractive anyway.

 

And please don't take my words out of context. I never said he was HOT, I said he was good looking. Huge difference! Maybe I just wish that I wasn't a dork and see him as one of the better looking guys. ONe of the ones girls want. OMG, thank you, I just figured it out, I'm not gay, just jelous of the guys that can attract girls easily. You're a genious.

 

possibly. I doubt it. Prob jus think the dude is good looking. I think lots of chicks are pretty ..doesnt mean Im gonna turn straight though.

 

Yea, but this girl is more than pretty. She really turns me on. But the guy is still good looking, and has an awesome sneeze! I don't mean to argue, but I'm still having a hard time interperating what you're saying.

 

I would just tell you to go with the flow and have an open mind,..Somethings are real difficult to catergorize.Relax and go with your gut (Belly barometer),..you know.Things will become clearer in time.No need to become freaked or obssesed.Take it slow.Sounds like you're confused and going in circles,......

 

My gut doesn't tell me much. But my brain tells me to go with the girl. I just don't know why I think about the guy as much as I do. Could it be jelousy? or is it something that my brain is hiding from my inner being?

Yes, I am a very odd si-fi fan!

 

This makes me think of denial,...possibly the brain is saying to be straight since being bi/gay is frightening and of course not as accepted.Maybe you have a hidden tendency to swing both ways.You never really mentioned whether you ever had an encounter with a guy before,....It's all kind of vague.I believe most homophobics have had some encounter with the same sex,.and you had originally mentioned being homophobic.Obviously you're posting cause you're thinking about it quite alot.I don't think you'd think about it much if you were'nt at least Bi/Curious.It's really on you're mind.I don't really know much more to say,...You really have to stop,..and be honest with yourself,Really.You have the answer,...Take a moment, stop rationalizing ,..just be honest with yourself.
No-one here can say what your sexual orientation is,only you can determine that.Would you really be posting all this if you were'nt at least curious,...Gotta think..Stop rationalizing,Step back,and face the music.That's all I have to say.
With,Peace and Love,
Joey*

 

Sorry if I seem angry.
Joey*