BF is great but doesnt do oral

My bf is great, very loving and sweet, but is kind of sexually selfish. He doesnt give oral but loves to get it, which i dont mind and do often even ethusiastically. I have tried talking about it but he just says he doesnt like it. When we have sex I try the whole "I'd love if you ....." but he doesnt even attempt to please me it would be different if he didnt know how but he is unwillingly to try. I have always loved sex and experimentation and never had this problem before, we've been together 3 years and I am losing interest in sex altogether. Any suggestions would be appreciated

 

Make a compromise, one night do whatever his favourite thing is, and convice him to do you oral. You must even get him to try.

 

well I'd say talk to him, but it seems you've already tried that approach, so i'd go for a more direct approach (LOL). Try letting him know in a suttle way that him not giving you oral is making you unhappy. Maybe the next time he wants oral don't give it to him unless he agrees to try giving you it first? Hope I helped.

 

Sex is a BIG component to our happiness, I've read somewhere that it accounts as much as 33% of our happiness and I would agree with that number. Soooo, dump him. He doesn't sound all that great anyhow if he's selfish. Plenty of fish in the sea, don't shortchange yourself.

Show you're losing interest in sex and turn down his advances and tell him why. And tell him you'll have to move on if he doesn't smarten up.

 

he's probly had a bad experiance with it in the past maybe... I kno i did in high school, i dug out this broad, and it smelled like body odor, shit, and piss... she was cute tho, but i stuck my tongue in it and it tasted salty... real salty... this was four years ago i think i was a senior in high school, and never stuck my tongue in pussy ever since... I give orgasms with my dick or with my finger. point blank...

Your boyfriend and i are alike... excpet the ladies im with dont trip when they dont get no tongue, cuz they get black dick instead.

But if it helps, my lady once told me if i dont put my tongue around her clit she wouldnt suck my dick... set an ultimatum for him. I still never did it, and stil get my dick sucked, but it shook me up quite a bit when she told me she wouldnt suck my dick... I got kinda scared. Cuz I love blow jobs. Almost as good as smokin a blunt.

 

BAAAAH. CLEAN THAT SKANKY HOLE. NO GUY DOES ORAL ON A CHICK he doesnt know for a long long time unless hes worthless. consider urself lucky. get tested , then show him the results. I even loved a woman but wouldnt eat it. you cant compare head to eating pussy. Aaaaa...Its expected of a woman to give head...if she swalloes, then thats her fault, but eating pussy can give u serious dieseases- suckin head is much less risky.. Cut the guy a break till u prove urself worthy. Im not popular with woman, cause i still belive in male supremecy,but a lot of young guys agree with me.So waht if other guys get more-they get more STD's also!!

 

Maybe he had a bad experience with oral before. Try using saranwrap to create a barrier between your clitoris and his tongue, or use tasty lubricant that he will love to taste. Perhaps he does not like the smell of a pussy, so make sure yours is very clean and scented.

Or tell him you will only do oral on him if it is a 69.

 

humn. Sound strange that a dude would not wanna eat a girl out of she was clean? Isn't that what straight sex is about..eating pussy and suckin dick and all that. Im gay though so I dunno. Perhaps he is too if he doesnt wanna eat it. Most hetero men do not have this prob that I know..they love it. So maybe you should ask if he's gay..or tell him you are gonna find a man who will be glad to take care of that for ya. They def exist!

 

How on earth did you ever end up in a 3-year relationship with someone who isn't interested in pleasing you sexually? Get out of it, and to make sure it never happens again, follow these two rules: Rule #1 - the woman gets off first...always...from day 1. Rule #2 - whatever it takes to accomplish Rule #1 is what you do...period.

 

I think I just lost a little faith in humanity.

Seriously, guys who still believe in double standards are plain dumb and don't deserve the time or attention that modern women sometimes still bestow upon them. Talk to him more about it, explain that it's really important...and then, cut the blowjobs.

 

what crap

it really depends on how importantn receiving oral sex is to you (the OP). if you can go without it and hes amazing and wonderful beyond this little imperfection, why not stick with him? if you require oral sex for your life to be satisfactory (which, truthfully, i do) then you should consider finding someone else instead of him

 

leave some dude cuz he doesnt suck pussy? what the fuck... if some trick ever told me she was gonna leave me cuz i dont lick clit, id fuck her guts out one last time then bust nut in her eyeball, and watch it drip, smoke a blunt and tell that bitch she needs to leave, then laugh.

 

yeah?

and what if she tells you she doesn't do oral?

 

no problem... id rather fuck pussy anyway

 

yeah you know what your talking about?guys balls can smell just as bad as any fucking pussy. TRUST ME I KNOW.and if you believe that it's more risky to suck pussy than head your .......well i don't want to get banned but your misinformed i don't have the time to school you on std's but i'm sure google could make you better informed.get your facts straight before you go blabbing about things you obviously know nothing about.

 

the ultiamte fix all for all relationship problems........... fuck their guts out , bust a nut in her eye, watch it drip and oh yeah don't forget to smoke that blunt.i'm atonished that you even have a girlfriend she must be deaf, dumb and blind......to be with someone like u

 

Unfortunately people have weird hang ups about what they will do. Everyone has their likes and limits. Trying to change someones ingrained limits will get you no where most of the time. It can happen but rare especially in men. If you need this to be happy then be honest and go on your way.

 

Forget the blunt? gurl are you crazy...?

LOL @ atonished... I dont kno what you look like, but i can assure you my lady looks ten time better then some 36 year old slut... And hasnt been thru no where near as much dick as you have... Like you said, we "cant even fathom how much cum has been in, and outside your body"... Gurl thats straight FILTHY.

and quit dick ryden my post. If its not directed @ you... Then leave it be.

 

Wow... where's the love? If you really love someone, then sexual favors don't matter.

Peace and love

 

but i agree with dude in this thread... sucking dick and suckin pussy are very different... pussy is internal and the chances of bacterial build up are a little higher, dick is external and much easier and convenient to clean... Ive only experianced dirty pussy once in my life, and damn homie, that shit was foul... It was four years ago back in high school, and i still never stuck my tongue in pussy ever since, even pussy that smelled sweet, my previous experiance was just that bad... Like i said it smelled like body odor, sweat, piss and shit, and tasted extremely salty... and i had pieces of pubic hair stuck in my mouth... that shit was just filthy.