Online Love???

Ok, so I have this problem. I am in very,very, very deep like (i say love, but w/e, don't feel like geting yelled at today) with this kid Andrew.


I met Andrew through my best friend Hannah. Hannah met this dude, Ben, through a penpal system and they fell in very,very,very deep like. Andrew is Ben's best friend or mate or whatever they say. Anyways, Hannah and Ben said that I should start talking to Andrew and I did. That How I met Andrew!

ok, well, I am in very very very deep like with him but all my buddies (except hannah) are being poo heads about it. They are saying stuff like "your never going to meet him (he's coming over in 2 years with Ben)" "hes a 40 year old rapest (not true, I have talked to him on the phone and he sends pics) " and shit like that.

What I want to know is it possable for there to be such thing as "Online Love", even though you have never met the person in, well , person?

What do you guys think? ANd Have any of you ever had "Online Love" (or very very very deep like) ?

 

I have..I think everyone usually has. It is def possible. SOmetimes online is the best outlet for getting to know someone personality. Though I think what you speak of sounds very cute and sweet. It says you are 13. You prob shouldnt be looking into such intense feelings with anyone at this stage in your life. So dont look for anything substantial or long term to become of this. I would consider it a long time friend perhaps though and maybe one day when you are mature enough and if you guys are still talking and have not met other people in your real lives to defer you from each other then yea..I say go for it My best advice.

 

lotsa people have online relationships
they are good practice for real ones
but you must try to not let yourself get too deep into it

I was in an online realtionship with this girl, I was 'in love' with her very much, she broke my heart completely
turned out she was lying the whole time about multiple things, but did really love me and all that bullcrap
and yeah, not very fun, but it goes to show, as dangerous as it can be to trust someone in real life, it's way more so when the person has such a wall (the distance) to hide behind

 

Ok, so I have this problem. I am in very,very, very deep like (i say love, but w/e, don't feel like geting yelled at today) with this kid Andrew.


I met Andrew through my best friend Hannah. Hannah met this dude, Ben, through a penpal system and they fell in very,very,very deep like. Andrew is Ben's best friend or mate or whatever they say. Anyways, Hannah and Ben said that I should start talking to Andrew and I did. That How I met Andrew!

ok, well, I am in very very very deep like with him but all my buddies (except hannah) are being poo heads about it. They are saying stuff like "your never going to meet him (he's coming over in 2 years with Ben)" "hes a 40 year old rapest (not true, I have talked to him on the phone and he sends pics) " and shit like that.

What I want to know is it possable for there to be such thing as "Online Love", even though you have never met the person in, well , person?

What do you guys think? ANd Have any of you ever had "Online Love" (or very very very deep like) ?
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Hey sweetie!!

It is a very sweet situation you are in. But be very careful who you talk to where you talk to ppl in and how you locate them through the internet. I personally would not allow such things to happen to my girls. Everything in todays society is not all nice and pretty like little girls and boys see it. We as parents like to WANT to keep our childrens hearts and minds as pure as gold because you come into the world innocent you should stay innocent until your parents WANT to take the time to educate you on everything you need to know.

Personally speaking i married the man of my dreams that i met on the internet. BUT is it always SAFE, NO? I had my husband met my dad while i lived alone at age 19, to be SAFE and he met my whole family. Be on the safe side and just watch out for signs. Keep open communication with your parents. And if you cannot do that with some other older adult.

Teri

 

i hav emet people from the internet before, but the rules are
1) meet in a PUBLIC place. Do not leave public places with them on the first date
2) make sure a friend (or several) know where you are, and you have a time to check in with them (they call you, you call them, you "bump" into one another etc)
3) bring a cellphone with you. if you dont have one, see if you can borrow a friends for a few hours
4) trust your gut. if you feel uncomfortable around him, say you have to meet a friend at xx time and leave
lastly 5) have your own transportation arranged toa nd from - do not rely on him for your ride

 

your only 13 gurl go do your homework. if i were your mom id smack you. this is why girls get raped.

 

My mum had a online relationship, it lasted seven years so yes its possible for online love. I think its actually better becasue you arent judging the person by their looks but by their personality when you talk to them online.

 

to Poem~Girl:

I know he's not a rapest or anything because my friend Hannah went over to England to meet Ben and she met his friends, includeing Andrew. So I know he's no gonna rape me or whatever.


To rasprophecy:
Why would he rape someone in America when he could rape someone in England, so yeah, and my friend has met him in person

 

I know he's not a rapest or anything because my friend Hannah went over to England to meet Ben and she met his friends, includeing Andrew. So I know he's no gonna rape me or whatever.



Hey
you can know someone for 25 years and not know they are a murderer ... You need to REALLY wake up to the real world. Your only 13.

 

i thinkhes around that age too right? i know hannah as well
online loves absolutely possible & canbe very amazing but be careful..there are tons of creeps outthere
but if hannah knows hes not like a creep theres absolutely nuthing wrong with developing a 2 year relationship b4 you meet

 

that online dating shit is a joke... pedophiles playground... matter fact anybody watch msnbc that how to catch a child predator show, that shit went down right across the street from my house. I could see people getting tackled to the ground when they tried to run from the bitch ass police. lol... all pedophiles deserve an eminent death.

Little girl what you need to do is get off the web, and do your homework... where your parents at...

 

online relationships can work but you need to be extra careful especially at 13... theres way too many creeps out there. i used to think they were a joke until i fell inlove with someone i met online. believe it or not theyre not that uncommon, infact when i was in a bridal shop they woman told me about 40% of women getting fitted for dresses met their partner online

 

wait, you wanna online date someone whose across the ocean from you? england and america? long idstance is rough girlie, and at only 13... you have a lot of time to fin dsomeone close to you whos awesome

 

SHES ONLY 13. she should be playing with her friends or with barbie dolls for frig sakes. not playing with the frigging computer chatting to boys who could be freaks.

MY god! how dangerous stop giving the damn kid advice about dating and help her realise that it can be serious if she don't get off the web.

Do your homework or go out with your friends. You have Sooooooooo many years to find a bf

If that were my girls trying to find creeps you know how fast i'd be disconnecting the net?
FAST!
With saying that children should be taught how to work the net not just to creep around going onto certain web sites to "chat"

 

you don't ever want people to "ryde" your posts but you say some stupid shit.why do girls get raped oh great RASPROPHECY????PLEASE ENLIGHTEN us with your wisdom hahahahahahahaha

 

i think at your age there are alot of other safe places to meet boys, school, or extracarricular activities, don't be sucked into the cyber world you may be exposed to someone like rasprophecy.

 

^^ahhahaha

 

Ok, people. I told you that I met him through a web of people.

It was safe how my friend Hannah met her friend Ben.
I have pictures of Andrew and I have talked to Andrew on the phone, so i know he is not like 40 or something.

Andrew lives in England! If he was gonna rape anyone, why wouldn't he rape someone from the same fucking country instead of flying across the ocean to fuck me and then leave. If he raped someone in England it would be a hell of alot cheaper.

Andrew is not a freak, rapest, 40, or child molester. He is a 15 year old boy who lives in the country of England.

And Resprophecy, Summer=no school=no homework.

And Christ sakes! It's not fucking 1950, where every 13 year old girl (14 in 11 days!!!) plays with dolls and worries about mud. Its the fucking 2000's! I gave up playing with dolls when i was like 9! And I never cared about getting muddy!

You all have got to stop living in 19 fucking 50!
Evolve with the fucking times already!

 

apparently rule #1 for showing how 'mature' you are is usin the word fucking a lot. funny that i dont use it near so much and im 21... anyway

we arent trying to baby you,w eare trying to keep you SAFE and out of harms way. the best thing you can do is be smart with it
that said, i think that 13/14/15 is awfully young for long distance relationships, particularly ones that are oceans apart. its sooooo much distance, you guys probably wont be able to meet up for years... why not try to meet someone around your age whos within a few hours at least?

 

well, look at the bright side...at least he can't get her pregnant.