When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he said that anal sex disgusted him and it was something he never wanted to try. But, lately he keeps making all these jokes about anal sex and doing me up the butt. I'm not completely opposed to the idea, but I can't decide if he really wants it or if he just jokes about it because it's the "guy thing" to do. Any suggestions for bringing the subject up for serious discussion?
I would say something to him about it. Maybe joke around and say something like "you wouldn't fuck me in the the ass if I let you so, why are you always talking about it if you arent gonna try" On a side note, any guy who would not fuck their girl in the ass if she asked to be has got to have issues.
LOL, well, see that's what I thought... that like 99% of guys were into anal. I just want to try it to see what it's like. ::shrug::
Just make sure you ease into the first time with fingers and lots of lube so your first experience won't be painful and turn you off to the idea in the future.
On a side note, any guy who would not fuck their girl in the ass if she asked to be has got to have issues. That is so true, he wouldn't be worth 'his salt'. Simply based on principle he would be obligated to do "it".
I'm male and never really thought of it being pleasurable for a girl to get reared....I still have trouble believeing it. Wouldn't her....poop get all over my penis?
Yeah, he probably wants to put it in your butt. Just ask him. It's not like he's going to break up with you. You're pretty hot. If you want to try it and he doesn't want to I'm always available. J/K.. sort of... I'll be gentle.
I hope you dont actually believe this lol. Liberation, free expression, no more sexual repression...all fantastic things which should rightfully be celebrated. But this 99% of men like doing it in the ass and any man who doesnt must have issues thing is such bullcrap. Some men actually dont like the idea, understandably. Fine if you do but your jokey statement is just silly And being a woman does not give me the right to expect my partner to put his penis in my poop chute Dont believe the everyone does it stuff, OP. Its bullcrap
And being a woman does not give me the right to expect my partner to put his penis in my poop chute I don't see why not, it's your right.
He probably didn't want to do it in the past, but anal sex is so popular now a days that he probably changed his mind. I think the most effective way to get an answer from him would be just to ask him straight up. If he says no, then nothing will really change. If he says yes, then u can just come back here to get tips on how to do anal sex. haha
Most guy's don't know what they're doing when it comes to the anal thing, from talking to my close lady-friends abroad. Many women are turned off to it because of an over-anxious or over-excited and aggressive dude. tsk tsk. It is way nicer to have a lady ask for it, i think the turn off comes in as well when a man is perceived to be begging. Passionate coercion is best!
