This is the first guy that i've ever fallen for, the first guy that I think is worth while. The first guy that makes me feel and act this way. The first ever. He's constantly flirting with me, two of my close friends think he's interested. But, it's not going to work. I don't know. Two weeks ago I spent the night over at his place, we were both a little bit drunk. Slept in the same bed together, in the morning he put his arm around me but pulled back pretty quick. Since then I haven't seen him..I tried to talk to him on msn but he didn't really say alot, he usually ALWAYS starts talking to me but he doesn't do that anymore, I don't know what I did wrong?! Is he mad at me for something or doesn't he find me interesting anymore?.. Also, a few other problems. His girlfriend broke up with him little over a year ago (relationship of 2 years) and ran of with one of his best friends.. And I think he's still not over her. And I don't want to be the rebound. He's the best friend of my best friend's boyfriend, hangs out at the same places I do. So I see him quite often. If anything, I just want to be friends. Who knows what can come out of that. But I don't understand why he doesn't talk to me anymore online...I feel so bad..I never cried for a guy. But I've cried several times over him the last couple of weeks. Anyway, I just wanted to get this of my chest. Any advice would be apreciated.
Step back give a little space but only a little if in a few days of you backing off he dont come to you then you should tell him how you feel and probably back out of the relationship so no one gets hurt
I agree that you should give him some space. Am a guy and I know what it feels like when a girl doesn't stop calling you. It can seriously make you not even wanna see that person ever again. Sometimes, u just gotta let us do our thing. Most guys (me included) don't like something if it's too easy to get. I recommend that u do not talk to him for a while, but still find a way to be around him where he can see you (which shouldn't be that hard since u 2 have mutual friends). The key is to wait for him to talk to you. If he doesn't talk to you anymore, then it's doubtfull that he was really interested in you in the first place. It's like that saying "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was"
try to talk to him openly i mean not necessarily about your romantic feelings but about you wanna be friends with him an talk more.... get closer to him and then who knows... i dunno ...guys are so strange... i cant say why he acts so maybe he's still into his ex maybe he's not certain about what he feels towards ya
No u have to ignore him, don't listen to her! haha jk! Jk! I suppose talking to him would be a good thing, except for the fact that he's been avoiding u so obviously he doesn't want that. The reason why I think it would be better to ignore him is bcus sometimes don't realize what they have till they loose it. I know cus it's happened to me Anyways, good luck!
Thanks for the advice. He started talking to me on msn, well, he send me song and talked a little. But still, there's communication! (after I didn't came online in about 5 days or something) But I have exams, so I won't see him in two weeks and after that he's gone for 5 days to some festival... I really miss him, dreamed about him last night. I can't get him out of my head and I really have to concentrate for my exams! Oh well, I'll see what happens after... Anyway, thanks for the comments! xx
some guys just go on trips, im guilty of it... like when you kno when a females is on your nuts, you kinda purposely ignore them, I dont kno why i do it, but it seems like that is the case here. ignore him for a little bit, i kno when girls were on my nuts, i ignored them on purpose just to keep them on there toes, then when they stop callin ten times a day, im like what the fuck? and i start to think about them more and more... If i were you, id get over yourself, and ignore dude for a little bit, if he really does like you, he'll call you and express his intrests.
See Ellis? I told ya Good luck, just remember that there are a lot of fished in the sea. Unfortunately, we just end up falling for the wrong one. That's why u gotta be prepared for anything. Good luck again!
