Lying about not being able to have kids

Well, my ex just told me that years ago he took a test to find out if he can have kids and found out he couldn't.... yet for years, he pretended we were trying to get pregnant.


This just about takes the cake for the most fucked up thing ever done to me.

 

Nice.

 

I can't even look at him. One week and I'll never see him again, except to get the cats.

Thank God!

 

I'm sorry you're going through this.

People wonder why I'm still single but honestly the dynamics of a relationship just bring out the worst in me.

 

I would feel so cheated and used...sorry this happened to you. At least it'll help you to not look back.

 

I just laughed pretty hard. Not at your situation, just at the thought of using that kind of shit to get laid. Not to offend.

 

Haha... oh yeah. I was actually thinking I would miss him you know but now? That feeling is gone.

I'll miss the cats. And I'm getting a NOTERIZED statement saying the cats are mine when I can have them again because I don't trust his word.

 

Good idea.

 

Maybe he was too embarassed and ashamed that he felt it would be seen that he was less of a man and all or maybe he was just a jerk??

 

Um..... Yeah, "Sure, it's okay if you don't take the pill.. I'm ready to have kids" "Yeah, I'm sure you'll get pregnant soon"


:lol:

:lol:

 

He's less of a man for NOT telling her....

 

Exactly.

 

What a jerk! Well, thank goodness you're only 26, and you only have the cats tying you to him, LuckyStripe!

 

well, good thing the tests weren't wrong =P

 

Thanks merry mab. And duck...what do you mean?

 

wow, its all coming apart now. I guess it makes it easier to take the next steps and move on.

 

Oh yeah. Knowing this makes the percentage of chance in my mind that I would reconsider go from about 5% to 0%.

 

cause I've heard of lots of cases where men and women were suppossed to not be able to give birth, but did anyways
and it would suck if you ended up carrying an asshole like that's kids :tongue:

 

This is pretty heavy for the forums. You really want to involve people in an internet forum over the intimate details of your personal life?

 

Oh, I see, Duck.

Rat, why should I care? It's nothing I lied about. I could care less if people know what a jerk he was.