Boyfriend bisexual, just found out. Please help.

Boyfriend bisexual, just found out. Please help.

I'ts 2.30am and I have just left my boyfriend.

We have been living together for about 2 months and been seeing each other for nearly 9 months.

Over the past few days I have been having nagging doubts about his relationship with a younger man.

Now I know for sure that he has been creeping out of bed at night and has been having sex with him.

I'm a bit dumbfounded at the moment at how people can decieve others so easily without remorse.

I'm hurting.

Any help appreciated right now..
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I don't think it's the fact that he's bisexual matters, it's the fact that he cheated on you. If he has been cheating on you, you're well out of there. It will hurt but you'll get over it.

 

agreed
ive dated bi guys before who were completely able to keep it in their pants before. cheaters suck, youre good to have gotten out of there

 

Be sure to pay a visit to the doctor. Your man cheated, and you don't know what the person he's been with has been up to.

 

Hey, If you want him all to yourself - talk to him. Tell him you know what's going on. Tell him you want a monogamous relationship and see if he's willing to make the commitment. If you can forgive him, perhaps there is a chance for you to move forward together. Good luck.

 

You have my sympathy...thats really awful

Dirty cheat

 

CHEATING IS INTOLERABLE IF YOU FORGIVE AND CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP CHANCES ARE HE WILL CHEAT AGAIN.and if i didn't know my live in bf was gay i would be fuckin pissed!!!!anyone who is not honest about his or her sexual preferences should be shot imo.

 

GREAT ADVICE!!!!! CLAP CLAP CLAP

 

Thanks for your replies.

I hung in there for a few days. Confronted him but he denied it weakly.

Yes he is having sex with this other guy.

Yes I have left (today at 2pm) but as a friend.

I'm not knocking his sexual preferences, just know that I could never do that to another human being...deciet.

Thanks again, it rerally nice just to know others out there care.

spangles

 

I think its a bit late for that now.

This is why I'm going to stick to (a) church girl(s). :H

 

thanks

 

Why Oh why....right now I'm feeling completely used, abused and have lost all hope.

I'm 50...guess your never too old to learn.

He wants me to be his "beard".

I'm getting angry...I need to get angry, but all the fight has gone out of me because I have wasted all my emotional energy on jerks like this all my life.

I never seem to see it comming.

What's wrong with me....or is there not az decent man out there...or is it just me?

Feeling like shit...

 

Straw Puppy - You need a good hetero male like me, a one woman man who has never been with a guy. There are people like me out there - single (I am a widower), sexually active, and a good friend and companion. I am taken, unfortunately, or I would ask to meet you. There is hope - don't give up...

 

my mom who is 60 just got turned on to the world of computers and all she was doing was playing poker online, and this is literally just a couple of weeks ago, she met this guy. he was 39 years old and they talked for about a year and they fianlly met a few weeks ago. she(my mom)hadn't had sex in 21 years and she ended up having ssex with him well we all know what happened next .........he fuckin called her and told her he had a date with some other girl he fell in love with online. so naturally my mom was severly depressed and literally cried for days about this ass hole,she was having regrets and feeling bad that she let some douche bag mislead her into thinking he really cared about her, so for the first week it was hell for her but now her sadness has turned to anger, good anger if there is such a thing. she keeps saying i'll never meet anyone at my age which obviously isn't tru because she has met someone at her age.just not the right one. i am a firm believer that there is that someone special for all of us you just have to recognize who they are.keep love alive

 

Sorry if this sounds stupid, but what's a "beard"?

Anyway, I do hope you'll feel much better over time. And if you're never too old to learn, then you're never too old to find love. Real love, with someone who is honest and loyal.

 

Then how can ever be happy. If he is with you he will also long for male realtionships and vice versa.

 

Yes, there are good men. Dont give up hope

 

Threesome?

 

The bisexual guy wanted to use the OP to disguise himself as straight to the outside world.