ANy tips on convincing a girl to try anal play?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by duckyx, May 25, 2007.

  1. duckyx

    duckyx Member

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    I love to lick and touch and all that to my girls ass. but she wont ever let me touch or lick or anything. When ever we do 69 ill put a finger near it and she will yell at me and be like touch it again and im done. Shes never given it a real chance to see if shed like it or not. So any ways i can convince her to at least try it for a little to feel the plesure?
     
  2. Slothguy

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    just tell her its something that makes you really horny and you think its really hot. Ask if there is anything she'd like to try and then you she can try that if you are allowed to play with her ass. Also just tell her to give it a chance, try to get her to be a bit more open minded and see if she likes it or not.
     
  3. Zanarkand

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    I find that the as time passes on, my girl becomes less of a prude and more open to trying new things. Maybe its just a maturity thing. Personally I wouldn't put up with that attitude. I would be like " ok fine. we're done. " Then I'd jerk off and go to sleep lmao.
     
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  5. duckyx

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    AHAHAH im going to do that next time. SHes done it to me several times. Now its revenge lol
     
  6. dances in pajamas

    dances in pajamas strange little girl

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    There's no "convincing." If she's not into it, she's not into it. If a guy tries to push something like that on me I just get pissed and stop the whole session all together. Maybe she'll be into it in the future, but she's obviously not now, so hands off. It's only going to cause tension and make her not want to screw around with you at all. Respect what she wants and don't be a dick about it.
     
  7. Mr. Berguh

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    Sorry to say it dude, but she's right.
    You can't make a girl have anal sex only because you want it. Just try to put yourself in her position... what if she had a fetish that she wanted to put a strap on and give it to you anally? You wouldn't accept unless you were up to it right? It wouldn't be fair to you if she pressured you to do something that you don't want.
    I've had anal sex quite a bit of times and the best way to get a girl to have anal sex with her is by talking to her, if you get take a girl by surprise like you were doing, it can turn rly bad rly quick.
    Get all the info you can about anal sex and then share it with her. Tell her anal sex is not always painfull and that it can be very pleasureable for both of you. Be cool about it and if she doesn't wanna accept don't be pushy about it cus otherwise she'll end up getting pissed. Just get really good at regular
    That's the technique I've used and it's gotten me good results so far. I highly recommend it.
     
  8. samson smith

    samson smith Banned

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    There are some of the areas on a girl's body that will prove more sensitive than others. I am discuss the most successful trick with you first know that what type of work done for her and then do it. The inner and back of the buttocks, pubis bone, and toes of her are the areas that you can stimulate to conjure arousal. So, run your fingers over these areas and see that how she reacts more likely in intense pleasure.
     
  9. Humperdink

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    You are probably stronger than she is, so you could tie her to the bed then have your way with her. In reality though, unless you want to do time for rape, you are faced with 2 options. 1) Find another girlfriend (PM Backdoor Man for tips) 2) Change your attitude. The anus is a very sensitive area, my wife likes to have her's massaged, but some girls are either so sensitive it does not feel good or they are morally against it.
     
  10. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    If she doesn't want to she won't sorry. I really don't think you can talk her into, maybe one day she might as she gets older but who knows.

    She just might think i's the dirtiest thing in the world
     
  11. Hugh Janus

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    Give her an ultimatum - no anal...or else you walk.

    Then you will either get some, or you can stop whining about it and go after her best friend with a clear conscience when she dumps you. Easy.
     
  12. The Backdoor Man

    The Backdoor Man Banned

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    Tell her if she won't put out anally, you'll stop shelling out financially. If she gets offended and threatens to leave, kick her to the curb and look for anal whores at the bar. Don't waste any more time.
     
  13. The Backdoor Man

    The Backdoor Man Banned

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    Better to be a dick than to be stupid. If I pay the bills, own the beachfront home, both cars, paid for her jewelry, fur coat and every overseas vacation and she brings nothing to the table, she better spread her asshole for me if I want it.
     
  14. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    For your consderation of her feelings
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BeoGU7mdMBc"]Fantasy - If it don't fit, don't force it.wmv - YouTube
    Funk it up
    :)
     
  15. Ruby Ryder

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    Offer to let her do you with a strap-on the same size as your cock...fair is fair.
     
  16. creedlespeek

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    Try bringing it up outside of sex. Plan it with her, and map out what is and isn't okay. Then you can respectfully push limits.
     
  17. samson smith

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    If girl is ready to sex with you, then there are many forms of foreplay that you can used with your partner and helps your partner to feel more comfortable and relaxed during the sex.
     
  18. Hugh Janus

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    I would speak to her parents about it. People get a lot of their attitudes from their parents, and they can probably let you know what is going on.
     
  19. GiddyLaughter

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    Agreed, ask her dad why her daughter isn't up for anal sex. Please post back what happens.
     
  20. Hugh Janus

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    Alternatively, do her mother or sister in the butt, and if you do a good enough job they will report back, and she is sure to want to try it too. Do her brother or father even.

    It is all about getting that one positive recommendation from someone she trusts. That's the key.
     

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