Before I lost my virginity I was always told that I would suck the first time I had sex. My friends kept telling me that the first time u always come quick and u don't really know what to do:$ . The first time I had sex I was so afraid I was gonna come prematurely that I didn't even come at all. I stayed hard n all, but I didn't get an orgasm.:& Now that am more experienced am still pretty much the same, it takes a long time for me to have an orgasm (If I have one at all), But I can manage to stay hard . Last time I had sex was last wednesday and the girl ended up coming 3 times and I didn't come at all. We finished because she was tired and she had to go home lol . Anyways, am not writting this to show off or anything. I was just wondering if there was some kind of sex position or sex act that is designed for people with long preformance like me. I've tried dry humping, masturbation, oral sex, anal sex (not on me! on the girl).. doggy style, missionary, face-to-face, the rabbit and some other positions that I don't even know the name of. I'd like to know if there is something else that I could try that could give the girl more and better orgasms. Ultimately I get pleasure out of giving the girl pleasure Please give me some more ideas!
take care of her pre-sex mood. clean up the house, wash the dishes, get the flowers. seriously, it helps a lot. my personal record with my whife is 6orgasms @ teenage ages by vaginal sex and 4orgasms by oral last week. btw she pleaserued me once with a 3 times cum oral, so who said multiple orgasms is for girls only
I usually last a long time and I find the best thing for me when I want to blow my load is fast and hard missionary or having the girl lie on her stomach with her legs closed and me on top. Also, anal gets me to cum fairly quickly.
I wish I could do that... I am pretty quick when it comes to it so usually what ends up happening is I cum 2-3 times and she's impossible to get to orgasm through normal intercourse. I don't last long but my recovery time is relatively quick 5-10 mins and then I last 3 times as long second time around. Third time depends on just how turned on I am or how tired I am, if I am tired she will give me a third through oral. She really likes to see me orgasm haha
Believe it or not, we all have the capability of lasting a long time in bed. It's all in ur mind. I didn't get this off a motivational book, I've noticed that myself. When I know am gonna get laid, I try to concentrate and think that am going to last a long time and it usually ends up happening. This one time though, my ex-gf took me by surprise, she got on top of me, she didn't even give me a chance to put a condom on (Luckily she was on birth control), she just went crazy actually. She started riding me rly hard and she made me come come in less than 10 min which was a record time for me. It’s not like you can just think “Am gonna last 2 hours” and then it happens. It takes practice but you’ll be happy with the results. You just gotta believe.
