Hi everyone, Im a 40yr old male who has been playing with my ass for about 10-12yrs. I love every minute off it, it gets me off every time. My problem is that in the past yr or so its been almost an obsession. I am newly single(long story but most likely had to do with NOT having sex with my gf because I would rather be alone with my toys. In the past month I have purchased 5 different toys ranging in size but one in particular has me weirded out , every time I put it in it seems like I have to pee. I know this is only supposed to be a feeling and to go with it but when I do I acually do start to pee. And again I totally love it. I recently met a nice woman who loves sex but I am afraid to tell her I am an anal slut. Any suggestions or anyone with similar circumstances?
I like my toys too, but I would prefer sex with my wife, if given the opportunity. Discovering things is a fun part of a new relationship. If she is into it, she is more willing to understand your desires too. Times are changing and there is enough information out there to support your anal desires. You never know unless you ask. Does she enjoy anal herself?
yes she does, I think she already know I like to play with my ass but just not how much or how big. She probably thinks its just a finger or so. Little does she know.
It should be easy to get her to try something with you. Give her some outrageous anal, then ask her if she ever thought of doing anything to you. If she has homophobic reservations, this would be your opportunity to logicly explain the true facts about anal/prostate stimulation for men. She might take that opportuity to do something to you. No matter how much they may say they don't want to do it, they would all love to shove something up their guys butt.
