still virgin

Don't worry about it. Seriously. I recently lost mine and semi still look at myself as a virgin.

 

It would interest you to know lady, that outside of the "liberated" West, pre-marital sex is an abomination. Compounding the fact is virgins are far more respected than any s**t or wh**e. If at all you find yourself amongst the recieving end of jibes from your peers, I give you my word;anybody with any sense of honour would be envious of you. Consider yourself the recipient of a tiara. Simplest way to put it as any.
When in life, sex has been given maximum priority that society definitely needs to check upon its values. And no matter what any guy says to you, I can vouch that guy would pick a virgin for marriage any day given that all other factors have been equalised.
Enjoy your life and redeem your self-esteem for instead of moping, you should actually feel proud of yourself.

 

speak for yrself nutcase, cos I am not a wimp like you, I hate 2nd hand stuff
hey guys
"iam a female 19 years old and still virgin
is there any problem in that?"

There is no problem in perfection maam

"and how do u see the virgin girl?"

See her with respect

"which girl u prefer? virgin or...."

Virgins obviously anyday. I m a self respectin man. I will never go for 2nd hand stuff.

"i didnt have any sex relation ship, how do u see that?
whats ur opinion about that
is thats good or bad???????????"

Good or rather its best

"iam here to discuss and be discussed"

you are always welcome

 

Well at 24 you're getting on a bit, i'd be suprised if there are any virgins in your age group, and the younger ones i doubt would want to lose it with you.

Imo you will probably be 60 y/o and still looking for a virgin, you're ridiculous.

 

hmmm seems u were on holiday when they handed brains out..never said I myself am a virgin

 

I know you are not. You're still an idiot though.

 

I'm 32 and still virgin.. didnt find my man yet! but i'm sure he is coming

 

That's how you see women who are no longer virgins? As "2nd hand stuff"? What happens when you do sleep with a virgin? She loses her virginity, right? Which means she'll be "2nd hand stuff" after you've had your way with her. What happens then? Are you gonna lose your interest in her because you've already had her? And is it even fair for you to think of women that way? As stuff to be rated as either first or secondhand? Hell, you yourself are not a virgin, which would make you "2nd hand stuff"! If your idea of a woman's perfection is based on her virginity, if you respect a woman simply because she's a virgin, then you don't really respect women at all.

 

Oh, and EazyE never even implied you were a virgin. He said you'd have a hard time finding one in your age group.

 

Who cares if one is a virgin and the other is not? Or how old one is before they lose it or how young they were or if they were too young (like me) or whether or not they never lose it?

 

I don't. I mean, if a girl decides to save herself for marriage well I can appreciate that. But that doesn't mean that the other girls who opted to lose their virginity before marriage are suddenly 2nd hand.

And Gryphon, don't get me wrong. If you have a preference for virgin girls, that's fine. I only took issue with you calling the nonvirgin girls 2nd hand. 2nd hand is a term used for products sold, man. Objects. Not people. That's all. I'm not trying to quarrel with you, although I admit I was feeling annoyed when I posted.

 

virgin girls are cool !!

 

theres nothing wrong with being a 19 year old virgin. i was an 18 year old virgin - even entered my first year of college as one and didnt lose it until i was with someone i care about and love *see sig*
it was something that set me apart from 99% of the girls i know and i like that

 

Wow, this went from one extreme to the other.

 

19yr old virgin? Come round mine. I'm sure we can sort something out...

 

There is nothing wrong with that. Sex can be great but in some ways I wish I had waited I would have avoided a lot of heartbreak and pain. Don't worry you'll find someone who you will want to be sexual with. That person will understand that your a virgn and be gentle, if not then they're just an asshole.

 

I must say I am really young ( to young to be reading this probly But) Its such a preasure at school to have sex at a younger age its rediculous and I know some one that had sex at 12 ( they may have lied but Ive known him all my life and dont think they lied) I just dont understand were this is all coming from.

 

i actualy am right at this momment totaly in love with a 20 year old virgin whos the most amazing person ive ever met
she was actualy suposed to be here tomorow but some $ issues have delayed that a few days
actualy concidering selling a 500$ vidio ipod to the 1st person who will buy her a $68 ticket..heehee
not that were in a rush for sex but we just want to be together today..
actualy were in no rush for sex & decided to take it pretty slow
but well decisions dont mean a thing when your right then & there & feelin it

guess my opint is theres nothing wrong with 1 way or another..
as long ads you do whats right for you
& your happy

 

you mean that pot makes you forget about SEX ? whoa man, nasty effect. could be something handy for the clergy, though . pot for the priests to prevent them from turning into pedophiles. :lol:

 

My wife was a virgin (it was one of the requirements , to put it bluntly ) . There are lots of advantages to remaining a virgin until you marry , because this will enable you to give yourself to your husband fully. You wont have part of you that you have to keep secret or , if you tell him about it it will hurt him. My wife told me that when we were courting , she wasnt sleeping with anyone till she got married. I didnt have a problem with this because , if I pressured her for sex , this would mean I was actually disrespecting her. She told me she had to put up with this pressure for sex from her exes but she stuck it out and refused their offers. So , this proves that if a man wants you that badly , he will be prepared to wait , but if you meet someone who wont accept this , then I would finish the relationship . He is not worthy of you.I think it is important to explaiin this very early on in the relationship. That way you will both be relaxed about the situation.
Of course , you also have the advantage of no stds , unwanted pregnancies , when you get married , your husband will be suspicious of your previous lovers , he might be jealous , it eats away at him , why should somebody else , some stranger have did this to my wife. What can he do , he has to bottle it all up. It forms tension between you , its a big can of worms to open up.
I must admit that I am completely baffled that so many men dont see this as a problem. The only thing I can say is , let them have the non virgin girls as their wives if they want them, theyre welcome to them.

good luck!