should baby hold together a reltionship that just isn't there anymore?

The abuse excuse but what if should I could he would he so on and so forth. You know what honey from here on in what your daughter sees hears ans knows will stay with her till she fully understands until you escape .. Go get help seek some supplemental money or something rathre till you can get back on your feet get a restraining order or protective order. And better yet if you feel the NEED or you know in your heart that he CAN stand up to be a father to Abryn than go to a access centre have him get councelling and get supervised councelling . BUT FOR NOW NO. because hes threatening SUICIDE. he needs help. I am talking about in the long run. Abryn DOES NOT need to be around such negativity especially since shes so little even when shes a little girl or teenager.



Stay away until you know he's gotten help!!!!

Teri

 

Good advice everyone! I hope this chick listens to y'all!

Peace and love

 

If at one point you were passionately in love with this man, then I would seek counseling as there is a child involved. Perhaps that will help restore the magic. If you were never so in love him to consider marrying him, then I think the best thing to do would be separate. If its not there, its not there.

 

oops, should've read beyond the first post. It sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. Perhaps he will and he will change, but all indicators here say show him the door.

Best of luck, I know it must be hard.

 

well this last night and this morning I left him and told him to find somewhere else to stay. he at one point told me I could go out and have sex for some money on the side, at which point I told him to just leave. so there we are. He's gone, although he keeps calling me all the time. I know it's over, though, and so does he, and I know he's really scared, but I think this will be a really good learning and growing experience for him. either that or he will go out and do as many drugs as possible and ruin his life. like he did last time. but I am comfortable with myself leaving him and I know that I can do it right this time.

Thanks everyone for all the support! I feel stupid being in this situation after having told my cousin when she was in an even more abusive relationship how stupid she was for staying with him.

Thanks again.

 

Its always easier to see in others. Good luck to you and congratulations on taking some steps to make your life better.

 

Hello! My parents walked away from their relationship when I was 11. The only real harm to me was I throw like a girl because I went with my mom. All joking aside when my mom took us kids away from our dad it was a good call because we were taking out of harms way. So you also made a good call.Chees!