silly thread of love and forgiveness

i've been so much hurt and mistreated lately that it would be natural to get angry with the whole world...

i see so much negativity in reality...in the streets...buses...here at the forums...and i feel this negativity creeping into our souls

please dont let it!

no matter how badly you are hurt
no matter how disappointed you are...
just forgive and feel good to others even those who dont treat you nicely

well i know this is a stupid thread but i feel need in saying this and expressing my love even if it's not appreciated by anyone

love you!

 

It most certainly is appreciated, neponiatka. Seeing someone realize the importance of treating everyone with kindness, not solely those who are kind themselves, is very rare, and I respect you for that. Everyday the world brings new frustrations, and as difficult as it may be, we must find it in ourselves to keep the negativity from taking over.

 

thanx thanx thanx - that actually helped me

 

Neponiatks you are a beautiful outside and inside . I am really sorry you have been hurt

love,charlie

 

This post is not stupid or silly. Feeling hurt but reaching out with love and forgiveness rather than bitterness is one of the best things a human being can do. Thank you, neponiatka. Peace and love to everybody everywhere.

 

The most you can do is set a good example.
Dont get so down..
It's how life is.
It's just one of the things that,
we as humans,
must learn how to deal and live with..

It's always better to turn out as the more mature one, ya dig?

The most you can do is try and change things
by being outspoken. Stand up for yourself.
BUT Instead of spewing insults and stooping to their level
(if they even have one)..

Part of being mature is learning how to forgive...
sadly, you can't change people.
But, you can always give them the information and tools
for them to change on their own.
"Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer"


I hope you'll be able to get past all the negativity.
It's hard sometimes.
But don't let it take over your thoughts.
And holding those feelings in isn't good or easy.
It's hard to keep everything inside and forse a smile.


Do somethin' that makes you happy... to distract yourself
(I'm watching "Dodgeball")


I'm glad you were able to share. It isn't silly at all.

 

thank you all
actually i feel sad and happy at the same time...hm...yeah...people tend to hurt each other
unintentionally...
and then intentionally...
fortunately i'm not a pessimist and still find stregth to love...
just one thing i cant understand is:
WHY DO PEOPLE FLEE WHEN YOU TRY TO HELP THEM, HELP THEM OUT, GIVE THEM PART OF YOUR LOVE...?

 

people just seem to be scared of love and warmth...

but i think it's better to be wasted then keep all the positive vibes and love inside...just for yourself

i just wanna other people to feel my love and spread their's....
love you

 

This thread is so sweet.
We love you too =]

 

ha...yeah...thanks
i know i know i shouldnt ask anything in return...(still we all want to actually)
i'm talking about why people give shit in respond to love?

but well i'm not bitter, and i'm grateful to you for your replies!
....love....

 

Wow, DSOTM...
that was really deep, my brother.
Right on,
it was similar to what I was going to suggest.
lol.

~~~

Sometimes, people just don't or can't
accept love and warmth...
It could be for all kinds of different reasons:
Some are selfish,
afraid because they don't know how
(maybe from a situation or upbringing of the past),
the conditioning they lived/life through,
guilt,
pleasure,
being pessimistic,
supiriority complex,
being disguested,
etc...

Sad it may be,
atleast you are trying
and that you care enough to be that way.

DSOTM gave great respond and advice...
As DSOTM stated,
"you are doing your part, and that is a "reward" unto itself."

Just know that you're a good person.
You seem to be optimistic, too.
So, very cool, I say.
Keep being the wonderful soul you are.

 

This thread is not stupid at all. I think you're being really strong not letting the bad things get to you.
Keep spreading the peace and the love. Everybody deserves their own little piece of it.
Peace to you and all your kind.

 

peace and love to everyone. we should all love each other.life is to short to be angry with people.

 

if your a hippy, and it gets you nowhere, go there proud

 

thanks you all, ppl
in russia we say "spasibo bolshoe!" that's thank you very much
we also say : what doesnt kill you make you stronger
so having been hurt i sorta learned more to appreciate and spread love

love you
just dont forget to do the same!

 

we will not forget peace and love Neponiatka

 

you have some beautiful thouhts on this subject, thanks for sharing it with us. and neponiatka, thanks for maing up this threat, though it has been said a few times already. i think it is wonderful the way you react on your sorrows, keep up the spirit, it inspires other to do the same

 

Alinka you really are a beautiful person. Threads like this make me really happy, and reminds me about love and how i need to show as much love as i can everyday =]
im so glad there are ppl like you in the world, and im so glad that u posted this thread because there is just so much love in it. I love you =] =] =]
and all the ppl that posted here, everyones really thoughtful and smart!!!

PEACE
love
Jane

 

Alinka, my dear friend!
This smile`s from me to you:
(I hope you can see me smiling at you while I`m typing these lines for u, dear)

You`re an awful and unique person and threads and comments like this here are only another proof for that! I am so happy, that you regained your happiness again, although you have still questions, that are worth to be asked... why can`t just everybody love everybody? I don`t know... but if only one single person (or even some, like here) just try to spread love, the world is a little bit better off, isn`t it? Everyone can change something.... and you`ve definitely the strength to change the world for the better!!!!

I just want to tell you, Alina: Ich liebe dich!

Thanks for existing!
Thanks for never giving up! (and if, then only for some dark moments, what`s legitim ;-) )
Thanks for being there for all of us and for me!
Thanks for sending such positive vibes into the world!

I love you, my friend. Never forget that. I`ll be with you forever. I`ll be there for you forever.

Fred

 

Awe,
Thank you so much DSOTM!
You are truely awesome, my brother.
Slowly, I think many are realizing,
how to be more warm and loving.
(Such as Miss JaneJimMorrisonFan,
as I'm sure many others.
Your posts are very enlightning
and I think evereyone really appriciates it.

Let's all "kill em with kindness".
The world is becoming a better place
through threads like these and others like it.
It's great that so many are ensthused to share.

Much Peace and Love to you.

Jane, you are such a beautiful soul.
Thank you!
You are warm and very loving to all.
I think you're doing a great thing for everyone here.
Keep letting the word be spread...
Bring Warm and Kindness to
your Brothers and Sisters.


Love and Peace, my sister!