Is the Asian Woman a better "Package" ?

Thank you, Musikero!

You just can't seem to get away from the image MTV created for women no matter where you go.

 

That is so true, my friend.
Hense why I don't watch shows like that.
It's too brainwashing for the human race.

 

i'm half white, and half chinese, born and raised in california, and i can say that i am no different from any other california teenager. no different. none. none none. you guys are stupid, especially the dude that thinks we're icy. my mom ( the asian) and her friends are more chatty than anyone i've ever met. hasn't anyone heard the saying "asian women talk a lot"? its way too true. even i talk too much, and i'm only half.

 

Not to be nasty talking, but I hear that they do anything to please a man in bed.
Excuse me.. I know you're only 16 and I didn't mean anything by that, just heard that they are that way.

 

French women are a huge better package! lol!

 

To me, french talk is so..what is the word I'm looking for?

 

Surely there must be women in any race who are willing to do anything to please a man in bed, not just asian women.

 

Exciting and Sexy!

 

I have only seen a few good looking asian women in my time, but they seem to be in much better physical shape than other flavors. Just my narrow-minded insight!!!!!!!!!


HA HA

 

From my personal experience, Chinese women are great in bed. And they appreciate the extra inches...

 

I love all asian women. I'd settle down with one, they are just beautiful pieces of art. Not that they are packages, but I find them extremely beautiful

 

During the year I lived in China, I found myself hit on by countless women who would have been well out of my league, had my loins not contained the promise of permanent residency in the U.S. I turned them all down. It's not that I was too honest or decent to trade an empty promise of marriage for a few nights of nookie. The giggling lotus blossoms just didn't do it for me. Why not? Well, if you've the stomach for a screed filled with half-true, largely unflattering generalizations that I formed during a limited period of careless observation, read on!

1) Asian women are ungoddammnedbelievably practical. I can't imagine lying in bed with one, mumbling dreamily about love in the abstract. More likely, I suspect, she'd be decorating the rooms of our dream house, one by one. In the morning, she'd present me with an itemized bill, along with the number of a good mortgage broker.

2)They rule the house like the Gang of Four ruled China. All the Asian women I've ever known have treated cleanliness like a divine imperative. In principle, this is a good thing. But being shrilly bidden to take off my shoes, keep my feet off the coffee table, don't fart, pick up this, pick up that, don't walk here, don't walk there -- would make me feel like I was living in a barracks, or worse, at home with my mother.

3)They will bust your balls like ripe lichees. Among the myths about Asian women, one of the most persistent is that they submit -- whatever that means -- to their men. That may be true under certain rarefied conditions, like if you've picked one up in an Olongapo dive bar and your relationship is due to expire in three hours. But when they're in it for the long haul, most of the Asian women I've known like to negotiate from a position of strength. Some (mainly Koreans) fight in the open field, browbeating their baffled Anglo mates until they concede the disputed point. Others prefer to lay siege, sulking, seething, and dealing out the silent treatment until their partners surrender at discretion.

4) Time is not on their side, no it ain't. No one can be counted on to age well, of course, but Asian flowers seem to wilt quicker and more completely than their counterparts from other regions of the globe. A few, like the shopkeepers' wives I saw in China, bloat up like pandas, their voices dropping into the kavaliertenor range. More often, they shrivel; as their scant padding falls away, the skin around their cheekbones tightens until they look as though they belong in a glass case at the British Museum. In either case, consumers may feel tempted to find a trophy wife to replace their trophy wife, which is never good for the soul.

 

Booga - you get the HipForums Booby Prize for knowing the least about what you are talking about.

 

Yes, I agree. They are half-true, largely unflattering generalizations.

And this is wrong because...?

ALL the Asian women you've ever known as far as I can tell from your post are CHINESE. Not all Asians think alike.

FINALLY! Somebody who doesn't believe in the submissive Asian girl stereotype!

LOL, an acquaintance of mine told me something her father said: "In this house, I have the final say: 'YES dear'".

Time is on NO ONE'S side, and if you're in it for the long haul it would not be advisable to focus on your wife's appearance as she ages over the years.

 

I really don't know, becasue as a half-black, half white (Making me look like a Light-skinned Mexican) I really don't care about race. Even though mixed girls are pretty to me...

To think that one race is "a better package" is pretty rude to every race and all women, since (As Misikero said) it sounds like you are calling them objects which they are not.

 

Put it down to personal taste. Most of the Asians I've known -- men, as well as women -- see life, happiness, and success in very straightforward terms. You get the highest-paying job you can find, buy the newest gadgets, and show them off to your family, who, hopefully, have been a little slower to acquire them. They tend to pursue these goals with an avidity I can't help but admire, but which I've never quite been able to share. Me, I'm an arty-farty dreamer. Sure, I save money and watch my credit score like a hawk -- but for me, those aren't ends in themselves.

Well, not quite, but close enough. Anyway, I would argue that generalizing from Chinese examples is the next best thing to an actual scientific sampling of Asians. Mainland China's population has grown to one-and-a-half billion, with additional tens of millions of overseas Chinese planting colonies throughout the rest of the Pacific Rim (not least in Manila, as you've surely noticed). Put ten Asians in a hat, and chances are -- what, one in two? -- that the one you pull out will be Chinese.

China's culture has profoundly influenced Korea's, Japan's, and Vietnam's. Even though the women of these countries must differ strikingly in their outlooks and habits from their Chinese counterparts, I'd bet there are also many broad similarities.

(Not that there's anything wrong with it.)

Righto. But as we've seen, many of the Anglo guys who develop a hankering for Asian girls aren't thinking in terms of the long haul, or in any realistic terms whatsoever. They want a memorable and exotic experience, not a relationship with a real person. When I wrote that piece, I wasn't mocking Asian women themselves. I was mocking the expectation that marriage to one will feel like a lifetime in an ukiyo-e print.

 

There's a difference between being "ungoddamnedbelievably practical" and being materialistic. That being said, I also know Asians who are materialistic. These people however, do not represent all Asians. Your generalizations are just that, generalizations.

I agree, however these countries still retain their own unique culture and there are some broad similarities, there are also differences that must be taken into consideration along with said similarities.

Nothing wrong with what? The submissive, "Me-love-you-long-time" Asian woman stereotype? If there are Asian women who fit this stereotype and people who fantasize about them, I have no problem with them. I do have a problem with people who think this stereotype fits all Asian women.

You're right, I have observed that. I dunno, do we as a race really seem that strange, exotic and alien to Anglos?

I must say I rather enjoy this discussion.

 

This is a ridiculous question. Both types of women have their pluses and their minuses. Neither is better than the other and neither is the total package. This is a disgrace to both types of women and shouldnt even be in the love and sex forum, for that matter. I dont understand AT ALL what you were trying to ask by this. But if it is what I, along with a lot of the other repliers in the thread think, then I think it is a thoughtless question. NO RACE IS BETTER THAN ANOTHER!

 

I had a hard time finding the right word for the quality I had in mind. "Materialistic" seemed a little broad. I like "stuff" as much as the next person. But for many (though, as you pointed out, not all) of the Asians I've met, it's not enough to have stuff. You have to have stuff exactly like the stuff everyone else has, only newer, better, and more expensive. Or else you're a failure.

Boy, ain't that the truth. I've seen way too little of the world.

I guess I was unclear. I meant: "There's nothing wrong with saying 'Yes, dear', if it keeps you out of trouble." As for the "hey, honey-ko, I love you, no shit" myth, I object to it for the same reasons you do. I've known Asian women who had never heard of the stereotype until they started dating Anglos, but ended up driving themselves half-crazy trying to live up to it. Also, I've known Asian-American girls who were all too aware of the stereotype, and ended up driving themselves crazy trying not to live up to it.

Apparently so! But don't take it personally; sexual fantasies and ethnic stereotyping seem to go well together in general. One of the most enticing parts about sex is novelty, the promise of an unexpected frisson. What could be more novel, more pregnant with the possibility of new thrills, than hooking up with a woman from an alien cultural background? Thus, fantasists have packaged and promoted the agile Asian sex goddess...along with the Southern Belle, the Aussie surf bunny, the Scandinavian ice queen, the Spanish flamenco hussy, and of course the tree-hugging hippe chick.

Me too!

 

To tell you the truth, after living in Asia for three years now, I find it difficult to get turned on by Western women. I think it's because the western women who come over here are obviously heavier, more aggressive, louder, more demanding, think they're totally fucking hot and all men want them, have all kinds of fucked up tattoos and piercings and crap that almost no one over here has, and worst of all tend to wear revealing clothing completely oblivious to the fact that none of the Asian women (or men) around are doing the same.

When I lived in Canada, I had actually gotten to the point that I thought I was gay, just because I had absolutely no interest in 90 percent of Western women, mostly because of all the reasons above. At this point, the so-called 'conservative' element of Asian culture is actually a big turn-on. I mean, they wear tight jeans and such but they never show skin-- their stomachs, chests and shoulders are almost always covered, and they rarely even show their legs! It's actually totally wonderful to not look at some hideous, overweight cocky girl and get the impression they're saying 'fuck me if you dare' to every man in the world.

So to answer the original question-- Asian culture (well, in the three Asian countries I've lived in) is more appealing to me than Western culture as this time. But there are a few (very few) exceptionally interesting and wonderful western girls that I would totally openly and completely devote all my heart and soul to, whereas actually falling in love with an Asian would be hard for me... the whole 'practicality' thing is pretty off-putting, even though the conservative element in dress and manner is extremely appealing.