I thought it was true love

Discussion in 'True Love' started by ElChivato, May 9, 2007.

  1. ElChivato

    ElChivato SeNioR MeMBeR

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    i completely love nick with all of my heart. and we had plenty of rough times. but now he's left me for good. i feel so dead and empty inside. we were together for more than a year. i don't know if i can move on. *sigh* i know i sound very pathetic and sorry for myself, but i just needed to let it out.

    thanks for letting me vent.



    love
    laina
     
  2. dusk

    dusk Member

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    ah ,young love , i remember the days.
    dont worry, you will find it one day.
     
  3. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    Yeah ive been there at 15 too. Of course youll get over it though. I understand it must be really hard after over a year though...ive been with my boyfriend for a year now, weve grown so close, like were one. But hey, this is true love after the 3rd attempt, 2 relationships i thought were true before but werent, really. Like the other poster said, youll get there

    Good luck
     
  4. Stella_Drives

    Stella_Drives Senior Member

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    One thing that you have to keep reminding yourself is that you existed, and thrived and had a life on your own before you met your boyfriend, which means that now that you guys are apart, you can still function and be happy without him. It probably seems nearly impossible right now to picture your life without him but as cliche as it sounds, time will heal the wounds you have. Keep your head up!
     
  5. Hiplikethat

    Hiplikethat Member

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    i wish for you enough pain with this to enjoy the true love that comes to your life weather it be the next person or a few to come

    keep your head up after you hit bottom it can only get better
     
  6. dances in pajamas

    dances in pajamas strange little girl

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    Same thing happened to me, love. 14-15-16, I was with the same person, and she up and left me. I loved her with all my heart too, but things happen for a reason. It took me months and months to get over her, but I did. And honestly, I think I'm a better person from it.

    I know it probably doesn't mean much from me, but I know how you feel and I know how hard it is to realize the person you loved so much left you. But it will get better. Even though you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, it's there.

    <3
     
  7. ms.curiosity

    ms.curiosity Member

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    I know its tough now and its a cliche but with time you'll feel better. Take lots of time to heal, and believe that eventually you will move on and feel better.
     
  8. TransAmRocker

    TransAmRocker Member

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    LMFAO these 15 and 16 yr olds crack me up with what they think is true love...HOW HILARIOUS
     
  9. ms.curiosity

    ms.curiosity Member

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    Don't be an idiot, her age doesn't stop her from feeling hurt and pain from a breakup.
     
  10. TransAmRocker

    TransAmRocker Member

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    honestly, the only part that i was mainly "laughing" at is how she doesn't know if she can move on. 15 yrs old and doesn't know if can get past 1 freakin guy? But yea, i wasn't trying to be too much of an ass :H
     
  11. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    My mom met my dad when she was 16, they are happily married to this day.
     
  12. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    You're a youngin', and a pretty girl... there is still so much more love left on your path.

    Think of all the positive this will bring, and all the opportunities and beautiful people still ahead.
     
  13. mlee27

    mlee27 Member

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    there will be more where that came from. feeling hurt ect. i mean
     
  14. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    you did move on and +, Nicks a total dickface


    I mean....... Nick is awesome..............
     
  15. Willow_Jon

    Willow_Jon Banned

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    Im So sorry you are feeling so bad , but , you have a VERY LONG ...EXCITING life ahead of you. Everyday is a new adventure , another chance at finding all those things you want. Take some time and love YOURSELF.....Be yOur own best friend , and with time , you will look back on him with a smile , enjoying all the sweet memories of him with none of the hurt.
    Peace and love to you little sister
     
  16. blackheartbitch

    blackheartbitch Member

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    ive gone thru basically the same thing...just remember u dont have to loose nick as a friend...my first love is one of my best friends...so dont loose him just cuz u guys arent going out anymore
     
  17. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    Love as an emotion does not exist.

    Love is merely an energy. Two people give it to each other for some time but like all other energies and natures, it gets bored of being stuck in one place and needs to find something new.

    So don't stress it.
     
  18. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    Oh crap, this thread is old :D

    Oh well, whatever. Nevermind.
     
  19. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Gosh, that's boring.

    How about comforting the OP in another way:

    Your pain has made you richer with yet another layer of experience. No true love is lost. And what you've felt, was true love. Cry and mope, rich are those who take the risk of caring.
     
  20. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    Joy Divison - No Love Lost

    Great song..
     

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