I hope they cut your heart out.

I don't ever want to be in love if it hurts this much.

 

I know your pain.

 

Well then I feel sorry for you Crummy.

God, how I hate feelings.

 

kkkklllkkkkkkk

 

I paired my life down to just one, makes it easier.


I'll be damned if someone is going to hurt my feeling

 

It's not fair. I'm a lovely girl, I've paid my dues. Now somebody love me dammit! And actually love me, make me a priority.

How is it possible that I can care for someone so much, and still want to kick them in the shins and make them hurt?

 

I know......lord, do I know.

 

It happens, heck I'm 3 weeks shy of 29, I feel like I've paid my dues too. Sorry you feel so bad. The common tactic for a female is sexual deprivation towards the male - it is that one nasty trump card women have that brings us men to our knees.

 

if you have only been seeing him a few months and he is not making you a priority than leave him to avoid future pain down the road. Even if you don't break up can you really handle not feeling like a priority for the duration of your relationship? I saw your pics and you are really pretty, plus you seem smart and very full of personality. You are deserving of someone who wants to be with you. This is assuming that you are not being overly sensitive (ie-you are mad because you can't see him everyday), but I don't think you are.

 

I am incapable of abstaining from sex, I've tried quite unsuccesfully before. I'm a horn dog, what can I say?


Thank you Lynsey, what you said was very very nice.But I'm not strong enough to dump him. I don't want to give up. He's the first guy I've ever really cared for
and well, I just couldn't do it. I'd feel like I was cheating myself out of something great.

 

dhs! no holding out on sex makes things way worse. However if you don't feel like having sex because you are genuinely emotionally lonely than that is something else.

 

damn, I swear I am going through the exact same thing.......but mine is a l9ong distance relationship and I have been dumped , I just cant let go even though it keeps hurting me. I am doing a little better lately, but I still cant sleep and have to fight the urge to call her.

 

crummy, would that be the chick in your gallery? She's very pretty.

 

How are you dealing with a broken heart? I've never been good at coping with sorrow, I'd much rather be angry. At least that way I can smash something and feel better. Now I"m just a freaking weepy broken hearted teenage girl. I feel like a walking cliché.

Why can't they see how lucky they are to have us?

 

Yes it is and yes she is. She is also a very wonderful person, just a little confused about what she wants.

I dont know.

 

Alright next time he is out with hid guy friends go out with a guy friend of your own. don't cheat on him of course but make it a point that he sees you together. fyi from personal experience-make sure your bf is not the jealous insecure kind first.

 

never mind nix the last post unless you have already tried this-don't accpet his calls for a day or two and when he asks why say you were busy. next thing ya know he will be chasing your time and that's what a wonderfull girlie like you deserves.

 

I know I have had to try and move on, and I let her know about it and I think it does help. We talk a lot easier with less stress now. Less stress than recently atleast, it warnt always that way.

 

Ok Lynsey, I'm going to try things your way. My boyfriend isn't the jealous type, though he's told me that he's got nothing to be jealous about when I'm with my guy friends.(He thinks they're cool and all, but apparently not very good looking).


I have such a hard time getting over people. I need closure. And then that is followed by a good long night of shotgunning beers and bongs.

 

try not taking his calls first if you really like him and if it doesn't work go shoe shopping and cuddle wiht a plotonic male friend. I swear it is so much less painful being alone than wondering how someone feels about you. I prefered being in a controlling relationship than I did an overly aloof one even though niether one was a day at the beach.