Help?

Discussion in 'Hippies' started by Amaya, May 5, 2007.

  1. Amaya

    Amaya Member

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    Ok, I'm 15, dirt poor, and my parents dispise me and don't help me with anything.
    I feel usless.
    How can I make a difference in the world?
    What can I do now?
    Please help me with this.
     
  2. BraveSirRubin

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    Make a difference in your life first. Finish school with good grades, be kind to people, learn to truly love... and then opportunities to make a difference will present themselves to you.
     
  3. lovejanisandgrace

    lovejanisandgrace Estimated Prophet

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    ^^ Good advice. Get yourself in line first (not to imply that you were out of line!)
    If you truly want to make a difference in the world, keep hoping and it will all pan out in the end for you. Keep caring, keep watching, wait for your moment to make a difference.
     
  4. The_Walrus

    The_Walrus Sgt. Pepper

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    Yeah, I agree with BraveSirRubin. Don't worry about making huge, life-impacting changes if you're only fifteen, as you're only truly able to do so much with such obstacles/disadvantages in your life. Just work on improving yourself and the things in your immediate as much as you can first.
     
  5. Lady Neko

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    i fourth or third that sir robin. calm yourself. you are 15 and of course there are alot of advantages at that age. i was there once. make a difference. love, peace and flowers. and such. i hate to ask this but are your folks treating you like cinderella? my husband dealt with that with his step father. his step father was horrible and treated hubby's mother horribly. he hated it there and wanted to leave but he stayed cause of his mom. and one night i got a phone call and he and his mom had left. i do not remember where i am going with this. if i am not making a point somebody let me know. but i think i am trying to say is if your parents feed, cloth, shelter and do look at you with kindness even if you can't afford a tye-dye t-shirt be happy.
     
  6. Amaya

    Amaya Member

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    Not like that.
    My stepmom verbally abuses me.
    she calls me hateful names that I won't say here for stupid thing.
    Ex. She called me a f-ing wh**e for putting the toilet paper roll on the wrong way.
    I didn't know there was a wrong way!
     
  7. Lady Neko

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    *hugs* i know what that is like. i grew up like that and it got to me. but remember you are not like that sweetie. its not true. do not let it sink into your head. *hugs* wonderful lovely amaya
     
  8. knotdirty

    knotdirty Over the Rainbow

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    aw, sweetie...your dad lets her do that?

    She sounds like a self-loathing unhappy person...don't let her destroy your happiness.
    :(

    anytime you need love, come here. There's lots of love to go around here. Just get away from that opressive hatred as much as you possibly can.

    Loads of respect for you! I wish I was so world-conscious at your age...at 15 I was just getting out of the self-absorbed 'everybody-hates-me' stage. ;)
     
  9. Zeppelin

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    If it were me, I would make decisions about who is on your side and who isnt. Just keep slugging through life until your 18\19, seems like that is the age when you suddenly are able to make up your own mind and have a free will.
     
  10. neponiatka

    neponiatka Senior Member

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    close your mind for those stupid narrow-minded people who treat you like that
    and open your mind for all the others, try not to accumulate anger...forgive...enjoy the things you like...there certainly must be some things you like doing...
    have a goal in life and try to achieve it and then you'll be able to leave your parents and start a new life
    all you can do now is to prepare grounds for that.
    hugs:)
     
  11. Lady Neko

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    i could not report my mom cause my dad was a wonderful father (they are divorced) but she can report them to child services or something? would you want to do that?
     
  12. Amaya

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    Thank you all!
    hugs and cookies all around!
    *Throws cookies everywhere*
     
  13. Amaya

    Amaya Member

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    and I'm going to leave there soon....
     
  14. Lady Neko

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    *hugs* sweetie. we are here for you. what are you planning?
     
  15. Amaya

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    Just not going next weekend....
    My dad and stepmom are leaving for Cancun for the weekend.
    But, the week after, I'm not going to go.
    I had a big fight with them this weekend and the weekend before.
    This week was him being rude to me, and the weekend before was religon...
     
  16. Amaya

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    It makes me sick....
    I get so upset that I can't pay attention in class....
    my grades are suffering...
     
  17. Lady Neko

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    so you live with your bio-mom. is she ok?
     
  18. Amaya

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    yeah, she's nice, but generally useless....
    I tell her to come and pick me up and she said I need to tell him that i'm leaving.
    Then he blocked the door and threated to call the police.
     
  19. Lady Neko

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    that sucks. i am really sorry.
     
  20. Amaya

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    It's ok, it helps just talking to someone.
     
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