Highly intellegent/wise AND spiritual/funny??

So I met the most intellegent, amazing, interesting girl and we lived together for a while and were extremely passionate and she eventually left to go travel the world and go to rainbow gatherings. I feel like every single other girl I spend time with is nothing like her and I'm not even trying to compare them but I'll be connected and centered but they will not be. There have got to be more incredibly intellegent girls out there who are under 25 and love the Grateful Dead and believe in free-living and letting the "soul" be reflected outwardly right? EVERY girl I meet doesn't meditate (or barely does), seems advanced and creative in some ways but really is not spiritually connected and like they might dance and feel certain whole feelings but they always don't have the humor or the lack of fear and anger. I feel like now that I've met this person (my ex-girlfriend) I've seen what a human being can truly be, profoundly, and now I'm forced to live as half of something beyond reality, beyond concepts, or images, or labels. There has to be someone else right? A specific, aware person who isn't obcessed with archetypes and images to be fulfilled?

 

dude, if you can't be with the one you love - love the one you're with...

every person has a history, get to know them and enlighten them... seems like you're pretty condescending towards your fellow man, hope the same shit don't happen to you.

peace.

 

I didn't mean to seem condecending. I'll be around other women. We'll connect on all kinds of levels and there is definitely a form of love manifesting but I have never met anyone who even comes close to being as spiritually aware as she was and when you share love and are both incredibly spiritual beings, then there can be something so profound...a spiritual bond as if two beams of light exist on indecribable levels together. If I have literally never met anyone as spiritual, ever, there's such a low chance of being as lucky as I was when we were loving infinity together. Maybe this kind of thing is so advanced that it's hard to NOT make it sound like I'm spoiled by this one girl during this one time period. You'd have to meet her to really understand
How can you describe something that's beyond words? Everytime I think of OM I can sort of answer that question. The sound of creation and destruction; the transitory nature of humanity. What do you guys think are the chances of finding someone who is so extremely spiritual that just to be in their presence brings out your own connection? Pretty complicated huh? Have a peaceful night!

 

hey,


have you thought she might be thinking the same thing about you?

Z xx

 

How do you compare ???


did she leave because you were not her equal..if you were in awe of her maybe she did not like that..I know nothing about the way things were...just giveing less than 2 pennys worth ... thats all.

thats a very small criteria ... free living does that mean you can have a 'new' girl anytime as long as she fits in with your ideal..??

 

"There have got to be more incredibly intellegent girls out there who are under 25 and love the Grateful Dead and believe in free-living and letting the "soul" be reflected outwardly right? EVERY girl I meet doesn't meditate (or barely does), seems advanced and creative in some ways but really is not spiritually connected and like they might dance and feel certain whole feelings but they always don't have the humor or the lack of fear and anger. "

"A specific, aware person who isn't obcessed with archetypes and images to be fulfilled?[/QUOTE] "

Wow, you're looking for someone who isn't trying to fill an image? doesn't sound like it to me. Sounds like want someone just like your ex-girlfriend, and until you find that elusive girl you're going to be unsatisfied with everyone else. You need to put aside your expectations and try to get to know these other girls better, you never know what you may find when they open up to you. You could miss out on a soulmate just because you will constantly compare other girls to your ex.

 

Almost all people have something about them that is wonderful and lovable.


Open up.


For your own sake.

 

I think a lot of it must be subconcious. I don't conciously want to reject certain people because they don't meet a list of criteria. I'll be existing in the moment with a lot of other amazing and profound dreamers but they there is little, real, obvious connection on any level other than friendship. I think I'm just kind of subconciously "spoiled." Almost like now that she's passed through my life and shown me something so incredible and unique that someday there has to be someone really transcendent of images and unique. It's just strange how I've never met anyone like her; even remotely like her. You guys are pretty right though about how it's important to stay open. That's really the only thing you can do when you are having a hard time "moving on" after six months or more have gone by. Openess is all you really have. Open to everything but the incomperable joy, stillness, and contentment of satisfying the longing for another person. Has anyone ever felt this way..like there is little relationship energy between you and anyone else after getting out of a truly unique and passionate relationship? Thanks again for commenting and everything ~Peace~

 

Hi Purity,


I know exactly what you mean. But with that "right" person, whether they are somewhat spiritually there or ever moreso, they will be that "right" person for you. You *will* feel that connectness with them. I firmly believe this, as I had the same thoughts as you. Is there a man out there that meditates even monthly? Or at least one near me? Maybe! But I know of many out there that do, and they are real and exist. Just more selective in finding. Buuuut I do not search out for such qualities, as I know that the right man will be the man I am connected to on all levels, no matter what their "outer" person is interested in. Though I feel that the right person for me will have such spiritual qualities that will match me. Like you, I meditate daily or as often as I can, and when I'm lucky many times a day. I'm a reiki master/teacher, as well as teach a variety of other spiritual subjects at a local metaphysical store. I may have found but one person that is up to that "level" in spirituality but it just was not the right match for us. Which is great and like baccus said, and I'll expand on...there is much potential out there and we must be open to what is meant to be, and open to the right person we will connect with. First, since it's still only been a few months, take more time for yourself and keep doing what you're doing. Don't worry about the ultimate connection right now and see what comes to you at the right time. Did I make sense or just ramble too much!? Hope this helps!

MoonAngel