ok.. i heard this is a forum for hippies, so hopefully you guys will understand allright.. last school year i really liked this girl but i never told her because i was chicken about it. one day, i baked out and decided to write her a letter. so i wrote it, saying that i liked her because she was a groovy person. i also said that i was chicken about telling her, and that i was telling her because i was baked. i didnt know where she lived so i looked it up, and sent it out. that was back in the middle of july, but i never heard from her. school started yesterday and i asked her how her summer was. she said that it was good, but asked me about the letter i wrote. then she said that it got sent to her aunt and uncle instead of her, and that her uncle was a cop and could have arrested me because i said i baked out. then she asked me if i was seriously high and i said yeah, and she looked kind of like dissapointed, and didnt talk much after that. after class, i talked to her and said that i just used the grass to help me because i think i have epilepsy because i twitch really bad. i also said im sorry about everything, but she said it was allright, and she said the whole thing was actually kind of funny. she says its allright, but i know she doesnt think im allright. i dont know what to do. it all just seems messed up i dont know whats going on, but if you guys have any thoughts that would be groovy
some pple really freak out about the use of drugs, so yea, either u stand up for what u believe in (that pot helps u feel better or w/e), or u give up on drugs for her.. now i wouldnt make that sacrifice unless i was really in love, and even then i'd have to go to detox or something and i dont wanna... lol... from experience, i dont think u can change her mind tho (if shes really anti-drug as i think)
the cop can't arrest you for being high. you can walk up to a cop and say man im so baked right now from that joint i just smoked, and he can't do shit. beign high is not illegal, being in possesion is. so her cop uncle either doenst know the law, was trying to scare his neice, or is on a powertrip. if she's not interested in you for who you are and what you do, fuck her, she's not worth your time.
Dude two things: 1) Who gives a fuck what she thinks? Do you really have that strong of a connection with her? I mean ya'll obviously aren't into the same things. 2) LYING IS BAD! And if you're going to lie come up with a better excuse like aliens from another planet forced me to....I would believe that excuse a lot faster than yours
I'm normally quite easy going myself, and I can accept most things... but I'm in no way a fan of drugs.... I'm sorry, but in my opinion, you've screwed yourself.... twice in fact, first of all for taking drugs in the first place, but for then using them as an excuse. Sorry I can't offer anymore help, but that's how I feel about it.
she probably isnt weirded out because you were baked. If i got a letter from a guy that "im telling you how i feel ONLY because im baked/drunk... tripping face, whatever" id be a bit dissapointed. And chances are thats how it would be percieved. I would have left it at "i like you and ive been to afraid to tell you in person, so im writing it in a letter" in some form and leave the "i just baked myself retarded" part out. It means more that way. Some of us girls get weird about stuff like that. And if shes going to get that weird about you being high do you want to bother? And you cant be arrested for being high. You can get arrested for having the nessecary ingredients for the high. Her uncle was being a moron. Sorry if this isnt what you want to hear, just giving an honest opinion. If you really want to give this a try id say talk to her. Mention the letter was probably a bad start, but that you are interested in getting to know her. Whats the worse that can happen?!
Haha... so hemp=stoner... i never knew... (thank god we can tell such important things about one another based off image )
Well, are you alright? You mention thinking you have epilepsy... and self-medicating for it. Have you seen a doctor? Epilepsy can be very serious. Maybe you need more than your teenaged wisdom to handle this, and need to mention it to an adult or doctor or both. It's possible you found a girl who does not respect doing drugs, for whatever reason (I'm with her). I won't date someone who does drugs, either. I mean, I don't do drugs -- so what the hell would I do when my girlfriend wanted to do them? Sit around while she gets high? This girl might not be for you. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
This may come as a surprise, Jeffrey, but this person is claiming they are twenty-four-years-old. That makes this thread even funnier.
yeah i wanted to say something about that, but didn't want to make assumptions. it clearly seemed to me that the persons thread on this whole matter was very child like. i'm glad i wasn't the only one noticing
How do you know I didn't mean "wisdom of a teenaged level," huh? How, how, huh? How?! Hey, Luminous, I love the fact that you put the apostrophe in the right place after "Lips" in your sig line. That is a big turn-on for me -- a girl with a brain and willing to use it! Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Who are you, again? Listen hon'...you should know by now that I know everything, including how your brain works as you write down a thought. heh heh j/k ...and yes it is quite amazing that I do, indeed, have a brain *gasp* and am willing to use it. It turns me on as well to see a man that knows how to punctuate, spell, and generally speak (write) eloquently. I am not saying I don't fuck up once in a while though. Nobody's perfect!
I think it was good that he over came his fear with marijuana it shows that anything can be possible with a good old toke up, he just wrote the letter bad, next time kid write it before your high then send it when your high.....And whats with the fucking baby picture shit get that off there you fag, why are u even on this website if you dont like weed??what is wrong with u people? Who said hes 24 anyways it says hes 14 retardes!!! THINK PEOPLE THINK...WOULD a 24 year old be in school sending letters to girls??
yeah i dont think you can be arrested for writing a letter about being baked. but why did her aunt and uncle even open a letter with her name on it?????????????? but i bet it was nice to have her finally know how you felt!
Dude, the best advice I can give you is, go fire up a marley, get good and baked and then spank your monkey, and forget about that girl, There are many fish in the sea, just waiting to tickle your tuna
