I don't know how to focus this thread, but I will try to be as much understandable as possible. Today I feel, well... every day... too much pressure, my future is uncertain and I still don't know what I must do. I feel like walking slowly in a fast fast time. I need space, and don't find it. I need to have clear ideas, and don't find any. I don't want to be negative, but I'm worried because I don't know which way to choose. I'm turning paranoid, innit? Some suggestions? * Sorry for this negativity, but I got a terrible mental chaos...
Sounds about right for your age. I hear everything clears up around 25-30. And you sound a lot like my brother, he's near your age. I'll tell you what I tell him...relax. You're young. Walk slowly, enjoy yourself. Don't try to clear your mind, you can't force that...just relax and let it happen. You're not supposed to BE anything but yourself...it'll come naturally, just let it. It can't come as long as you freak out about whether or not it's coming. Love, babe.
it's okay. we all go through it, i'm in it right now. if you ever need to talk, don't hesitate to pm me =)
i feel the same every word can refer to me... i dont worry to much about it though...i try not to think...to focus on the things i enjoy...just to wait and see...
Your description of your problem is somewhat vague. Perhaps you could be more specific about the things you are dealing with.
I left the university for the displeasure of failing all subjects. Then, I had the thought that it was not done for me, which I was not made to do it. So I am here, without knowing which way to choose. I wish to study another thing, but many people think that when I finish, I'll get older to go into the job market again. The problem, nevertheless, takes root in what to study... I wish that someday I knew the real truth of everything. Meanwhile... I'll be patient.
i have been feeling a little that way since i have gotten over a huge gigantic hurdle in my life. but i have been writing it out and just taking one day at a time. i'm 24 and i just want to work my way through at my own face. i know most people my age are working on their masters degrees and i'm still working on my bachelors. it does not matter to me. this is something that i want to do. i think you should stop, breath and write. writing has always helped. but you will find your way. peace and love brother.
i didn't read this before i posted mine. you have a good mind set. the universe (as i believe) will help out. with much love.
Ugh, I know exactly how you feel. I've been feeling like that so much lately. It's hard to say what to do... Just try your best to not worry about the future. Think about it, but don't worry about it all the time. Take things day by day. Don't stress yourself out too much.
So, what happened with you in the meanwhile?...Are you feeling a bit better and more relaxed?...All of those people are right with their advices, so I won't tell you anything new but, here's an example - a friend of mine took 2 years off after finishing highschool, he played with his band all the time and didn't want to go to college because he didn't know what to study....Eventually he realized what he wants in his life and went to college, now he's 26 and finishing something about industrial managment, he told me that this is exactly what he wants to do, but when he was 19 he was too young to know that... So, here's my advice - take some time off and do whatever you feel like doing, play the music, sport, write, draw, go fishing...and one day your mind will just get clearer.... Don't push yourself and let us know how it went
P.S. You could study about Antonio Gaudi, you don't know how many people would be incredibly happy to be in your town (me first ), take all of the advantages of being there....
yeah, its an amazing town ... I ve been to Barcelona....a beautiful town with great architecture and Picasso museum....theres a lot of things one could do in barcelona, like see the Camp Nou or the Sagrada Familia...you wouldnt here me complaining if i was there...
It's ridiculous how much I can relate to this. The past few days, these kinds of questions have been circulating in my mind, and it has brought upon a horrible, sad headspace. We're not alone. Growth happens. I love you and I hope it's getting better for you! Peace energy your way, - Unlearn
