Are we perverts?

NO, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you and your husband. I'm also very turned on by this type of act. I absolutely go wild over thoughts about this. I'm single, so I can't live it out, but I sure do hope that I will be able to some day.

One expert said that no two sexualities are alike. In fact, she went on to say that the only thing that we all have in common is that it all starts in our minds.

You and your husband are EXTREEMELY fortunate to have similiar sexualities. Some people are not as fortunate. I fear having to settle for someone that doesn't have a sexuality that is similair to mines.

 

No, you're not perverts, except in the sense that, as someone pointed out, we are all perverse on this foruim. I feel more perverted on some days than other days, and at different moments throughout any given day. I have little things I do that satisfy those momentary perversions, given me a mischievious feeling I quite enjoy.

 

Thats fucken bad ass, i hope i can find me a wife as down as u ...
i think its hot, but im into shit like that...

 

I think that is weird. Im having a hard time understanding why you say you get even more "hotter" for your husband after some other guy juss nutted in you.

 

I can't really explain it, I just do. Maybe it is because I know he is really turned on by it. I know what is in his mind, that his cock is extremely hard and that he is dying to fuck me and make me cum even harder than the guest did. We are just on the same wavelength I guess.

I don't see a guy ejaculating inside of me as dirty or anything. Sex is for giving the partner pleasure and if he is "nutting" inside of me I know I'm giving him that pleasure and that's a good thing.

 

I actually just posted a topic similar to this in the Bi forum...

my partner and I actually do this too...but usually he is pretty all about the other guy just as much as me We both have close friends that we will spend the day or night with...but we are ALWAYS happy and horny to see each other the next day. If we don't want to know details we won't ask BUT if we do want the details we will just have a threesome!

 

the question you should ask yourself is does it even bother you if you are

 

I am just the opposite, I can understand perfectly why its a turn on for her and her husband. Most men (and many women) like to watch porno, which is in effect, watching other people having sex, the purpose of watching porno is to become aroused. This is just one step beyond that, rather than passively watching a video, they have chosen to become active participants.

 

Is there something wrong with me/us? When we were married I wouldn't have imagined we'd be doing such things. [/QUOTE] A.S.


If you suspect that something may be wrong ,wouldn't it be appropriate to seek guidance and direction from a professional,perhaps a psychologist to help address your concerns ?

 

i'd like to do that with my wife as well

 

"If you suspect that something may be wrong ,wouldn't it be appropriate to seek guidance and direction from a professional,perhaps a psychologist to help address your concerns ?"

I STRONG advise against this, although I have seen a psychologist for other things. Love is an internal journey and often an internal battle. Bringing in a person who has no emotion invested into you or your relationships is never the best idea. Will only confuse you more!
~peace

 

Well, you and your husband seem to have found a way to be very happy sexually. Why even question it? I always worry about over analysing something untill all the magic of it is gone. Magic - I'd rather stay amased at how the guy on stage made his assistant disapear than figure out his secret. Whatever your secret is, stick to it if it truly makes the both of you happy. I personally love to hear about how love is alive and well all over the world. Peace

Pete

 

I may be young but there really isnt anything wrong with that.

 

There's nothing wrong with swinging. And you still obviously have the intense sexual attraction and love for your husband. If you both know deep down that it's a healthy sexual relationship, then I see nothing wrong with it.

Besides, it's hot. ^.~

 

My husband and i have been swining for about a year and having polyamory relationships and it just makes our love for each other stronger. And the sex is WOW

 

You people who just fuck everyone in sight are totally iresponsible. I hope you have a good GP for medical advice - you will definitely need it one day especially as you will most definitely get herpes

 

I wouldnt have been that blunt, but i am pretty astounded at the amount of people saying "hey, nothing wrong with that at all!" in here with no words of caution or warning or anything. Live and let live is what i say, sure, youre both adults and can do whatever you want...
However, i personally find what you described a bit grim, and dont really understand it, and also be careful you dont get peoples emotional attatchment or hurt anyone or hurt yourselves...But im not preaching, before you shoot me down. Im also not old fashioned. Im very open-minded. But in my eyes, wheres the love? Hmm thats it really. But if thats your thing, enjoy, i guess

 

Curious as to why such a judgemental person could be on a hippie forum? Swingers on the contrary do no fuck everyone in site, they because friends with people and trust them. And in reality swingers are more STD free than others because they check them selfs often for STDs so if they had one they wouldnt spread it. When you have "man whores" and "female whores" they do not even take the time of day to worry about it. I think u need to dig down in your soul and find more peice before you continue typing your hostial words.

 

No way, I don't think what you're doing is wrong. If it works for you and your husband than all is well...it sounds pretty hot to me though

 

Well i guess that was aimed at sentient, but im not a "judgemental" person, and i dont personally like the sound of what the OP is describing. Sure, i have no prob with them doing it...but i can understand why people like sentient would react that way, and dont find that reaction contrary to hip culture. Its about love i guess