I'm a young man who's still a virgin. I'm not ugly, but neither am i extremely attractive. The biggest problem is that when i'm around girls.....i'm an idiot. Anyway, any advice. I live in Canada B.C if anyones intrested
Just go up to a decent looking girl, and say hey wanna hook up. When I was a shy young lad it worked on this alternative grunge chick. She was hot. She was a bad girl though.
No advice...possibly other than --- just grab them or say something lewd. By no means try to impress them or play the nice sensible guy if it doesn't come naturally (as it does not for me).
My advice is just say or do the first thing that pops into your head. Crazy or not, cuz thats the real you. Don't think of the consequences. If you can make em laugh there half way open. And don't seem desperate or even like you want the biz, if you seem interested in them but you don't wana bang em on the spot, after a bit they throw them selves at you....pluss its much more fun this way
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Tuck your pussy lips in and fucking TALK. There's nothing more unattractive then a sputtering, stuttering mess of a guy.
Was that supposed to be constructive criticism, tool? Ferris, it's easy to get tunnel vision when confronted with an attractive girl. I tend to get a look of terror in my eyes and try to say as little as possible and do as little as possible so as to not reveal what an idiot I am. One of the few things that help me be myself more is to just be very active in my own life - basically to engage in activities that are very absorbing and make me feel good about myself. Sports/gym are good for this...just being busy and active takes your mind off of being scared and gives a sense of control,