the other night my bf and i tried to have sex for the first time. now im not sure if what we did caused me to lose my virginity. what happened was that he tried to penetrate me and he maybe went 2 centimeters in when i told him to stop (cause it hurt to much.)id say no more then 2/3 of his penis head was in me. plus i tensed up so he couldnt really penetrate, and his penis would just fall right out. now i really want to know everyones honest opinion. do you think that was enough penetration to say that i lost my virginity?????
I would say no, but really why are you worrying about the labels anyway. Would it make you any different?
It doesn't really make a difference. Do you feel like you lost your virginity? I'd say yes, because if it got in far enough to hurt, there was some penetration. However, it doesn't matter what I think. Anyway, I hope next time is more pleasant. Go slow, use a condom, use lube, and make sure you're both comfortable. Peace
i would have to say no as well but say almost dont worry bout your virginity when yoyur ready.... and its totsaly right.. you''ll be far more relaxed & rezdy & it'll be easier no big deal we all had a few lil close calls before we got all the way there.. when u lost it there will be no question..
Joy - you only lose your virginity when your hymen is ruptured and bleeds, from penetration of the penis, or if you are one of the many women who don't have a hymen covering your vaginal opening to the extent that it could rupture and bleed when penetrated, you lose your virginity when there is complete penetration by a penis. Digitial penetration and penetration by a dildo can also rupture the hymen, as can bike and horseback riding, etc. Does this count as losing your virginity? I don't think so, but females should post here.
I'd say no. The first time I was penetrated I just kinda looked at it as getting the feel for it. This past saturday night/sunday morning was the real deal. Pretty groovy I'd say....
this actually happened to me as well. We planned on having sex (both virgins at the time) and she wanted me to stop as i first was entering her because if pain, so i stopped. "I" thought that did not count so to speak, so i still classified myself as a virgin. However. She on the other hand told her friends that she had lost her virginity so she apparently felt like we had sex but we actually did not. I agree, you need full penetration and a few good humps lol
It is all labels, if you feel like you are no longer a virgin, than you are not. But if you feel that that wasn't enough to make you loose your viriginity than that's up to you. What other people think, does not matter, but what you think does.
i say that until your ready try a dildo..yea it'll still hurt but you'll be going at your own pace and exploring your own body, learning what makes you feel good.
so he just entered with the head lol what a funny story. I do that to my girl all the time just to tease her. NO, no, no you are definatelly still a virgin. In my opinion until you have fucked for a couple of minutes, maybe hours you haven't have actual sex therefore you are still a virgin. Even if he had trust it all in for a few seconds that's not sex. It is like saying you have tried a fruitcake after you have had just a little cream from the side. You need to try from every layer in order to say that!
Virginity really doesn't exist. You discover things about sex, and how different things feel, taste, smell, look. But I guess you've only lost your virginity when you're familiar with the male/female body and you know how it works in a sexual context... or maybe when you've lost your fear of exploring and such. Also, I'm actually such a nerd that I used the word 'sexual context' when talking about losing your virginity.
